2006-12-01 07:38:33 · 44 answers · asked by wesley B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-04 16:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is she being annoying about? If she is trying to tell you about her day while you are watching TV or something else, then give her a few minutes to talk. Sometimes people just want to vent about something. If you think she is annoying by asking you to do things around the house, just do some of them. Then, she will quit asking so much. If she has a habit or way of doing things that annoy you, let her know what it is and see if you can work something out.
You can figure out a way to get around any issue if you try.
2006-12-01 07:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Biskit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you focus on the things you don't like the more annoying she will seem. If there is something specific that bothers you then talk to her. Try focusing on what you like about her. If everything annoys you maybe you are not crazy about being married to her.
2006-12-01 07:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Farah G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
True love is never annoying. Your mate should be able to look past your mannerisms, and quirks. The chances are that what annoys her might not be easy to change. Marriage is not about changing a person, but loving them for who they are...
2006-12-01 07:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat her better than you treat your friends, and better than you treat yourself. Sit down and tell her the things she does that annoy you but only pick the biggest ones and then let her tell you what annoys her about you. Both of you work together to stop the annoying behaviors--have a jar and put $1.00 in each time either one of you messes up. The winner decides how to spend the money.
2006-12-01 07:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by it's me 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her examples of things she does and tell her it bothers you. Then video camera her or tape record her. And after she has done about 5 or more different things, play it back to her. Its hard for some of us to see out of another persons eyes. And just how often it is done. She might just be bored and need something to do to occupy her mine. Or you might not be giving her the attention she needs, if thats the case she'll fine someone that can.
2006-12-01 07:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might want to find out what is making her behave in a manner that you find annoying. Why not just ask her.
I know it is a leap of faith, but hey, those vows should mean something.
2006-12-01 07:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hurricane 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit giving her something to be annoyed about.
2006-12-01 07:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ha ha! That's a good one. She likely doesn't want you to be irritated with her. One thing that will help is if you change the attitude you have toward her. Put on your rose-colored glasses!
Tell her, "I'm so desperate for us to get along, I went online and asked perfect strangers for help. I've been annoyed with you, and I know that my anger toward you is destructive. We want to be a happily married couple, so how can we change things so that we get along without annoyance?"
2006-12-01 07:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by AMEWzing 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how can your wife get annoying? If you love her, then it shouldn't be annoying to you it would be cute...whatever you think is annoying about her, think about what if that wasn't in your life. You should enjoy everything about your wife, she supposed to be your soulmate.
2006-12-01 07:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever tried discussing the one or more things she does? You might be surprised...she may be unaware that she does it / them. Be prepared for this discussion: she may open up and tell you some things you do / habits you have that annoy her.
2006-12-01 07:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋