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I just took a pregnancy test and I am pregnant and I'm only 11. When should I tell my parents? How should I tell them? Will the baby live maybe?

2006-12-01 07:36:19 · 27 answers · asked by riverxwater 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

27 answers

Just think, if everything goes well you could be a grandma at the age of 24.

2006-12-01 07:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by chuck g 5 · 2 0

o my god! I am 17 and did not know what sex was at 11 until I was 13 years old! I was foolish to have sex at 14 and regret it completely. But the point is your pregnant at 11 years old!!! Tell your parents because if you dont, you will only get more yelled at and in your case the last thing you should be worried about is getting yelled at. You laid down, you spread your legs and you let him stick it in you! You did the dirty deed at 11 years old, you should be on the Maury Povich show and learn what its like with the baby boot camp shows. I wish you could see how many people shook their heads as they read this. Why so young and why did you have sex? Dont use the dumb excuse "cause everyone else is doing it" yes alot more youngsters are having sex and getting pregnant but you are your own person and not everyone else. Just tell your parents and yes they will be fired up almost positive but just say hey mom and dad I need to talk to you and have them sit and have full attention and say " You will be furious with me and I have done something life changing but at my age you will be mad, but let me finish what I have to say and yelling at me will not do anything positive." Continue on and just say "I know what I did was wrong and this is why I did it and this is when and with who I had sex with and now I am pregnant" Someone rate this answer I want to know if anyone else agrees. But as far as u go, much hope because you will need it and look you cannot even have a job yet so now which leaves your parents to handle your baby. Spread your legs after your 22 when your more mature and I knew a girl who was 11 with a baby but the baby died because her body was not ready and not strong enough and did not tell her parents but they will notice it soon anyhow...

2006-12-07 19:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by swept away in hopes 3 · 0 0

omg u are only 11 r u kiding me?? i wasnt even into boys when i was 11 shoot i dont even think i knew what sex was at 11. u should tell them right away cuz u r going to have lots of complications since ur body is so young. there is a possibility the baby could live but there is also the possibility of u dieing giving birth!! so tell someone and quick. and maybe u will think next time before having sex. how r u even going to take care of a baby at 12? ur not even old enough to get a job. shoot u arent even half way through school yet!!

2006-12-01 17:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bree 2 · 1 0

Well you need to tell them now, so they have time to deal with the issue,

your baby will live

but you need to talk to your parents now, the sooner the better so they can get you under a docotrs care, and find out what the best solution is,


I would think the best way to tell them is to tell an adult that you trust, and have them tell your parents, like a teacher

or you can leave them a note when you know they'll be home and go stay with your auntie or good friend while they have time to privately discuss, and deall with the situation,

Its scarey but things will work out,

My question is do you know who the baby's father is

don't tell him until you have talked to your parents first.

please stay safe

good luck

meg

2006-12-01 15:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would tell them as soon as possible. You will need their support in getting through this. I would also tell the boy that got you pregnant as well. I would educate yourself about your own options before your tell your parents however. Chances are, they will not take it well. But if you are well informed about your options and what this means for you, I think they will take it much better. They will be impressed with your maturity in dealing with this. There is no reason that the baby wouldn't survive if you take care of yourself during your pregnancy. It is important to get adequate prenatal care to ensure a healthy fetal outcome. Start taking prenatal vitamins, be sure to eat a balanced diet and be sure to see an OBGYN Dr asap for the best way to take care of yourself and your unborn baby.

2006-12-01 15:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bumbo 3 · 0 0

I would like to think that if my child told me this.....first of all, I don't think I'd tell my husband. This may sound underhanded, but sometimes, the father of the teenage girl just shouldn't know. I would help my daughter make the decision to abort or adopt, or whatever she wanted, but I would make a strong case against her actually raising the child. Then when all was said and done, I'd enroll her in a Catholic all girls school, and try to become a stay at home mom, or make sure that a respectable and responsible adult was around at all times to make sure my daughter didn't get involved with another boy until she was much older.
Good luck, honey.

2006-12-01 15:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0 0

I feel very sorry for you that you've put yourself into this situation! You need to tell your paretns right away no matter how hard it's going to be! Seeing a doctor is very important right now and getting your pills. The baby can definitely live if you take care of yourself. If you decide not to keep the baby then making other arrangments as soon as possible is also important.

2006-12-01 15:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by binoxi 4 · 0 0

All I can say is maaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnn, come on now, you go tell your parents now, you cannot do this alone, you are a child, now your mom and dad is going to have another baby to raise. You can't have a job til your sixteen. Don't ever drop out of school or you will ruin your whole life. So sorry for you, Good Luck

2006-12-01 16:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by tammy_l_r 2 · 0 0

Tell them right away! You need to figure out what you are going to do and you need to schedule a doctor's appointment. If you start getting care right away, yes there is a chance that the baby will live. There are things you need to be doing though. So don't wait. If you can't tell your parents, tell another that you trust.

2006-12-01 15:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by maddie1979 3 · 1 0

well I am not sure I believe you for the following reasons...

How did you get the money to buy a pregnancy test?
How did you get to the store to buy it?
Even if you are menustrating you probably aren't regular yet ... or ovulating.

If I am wrong you need to tell your parents - being pregnant at your age is dangerous - your bones and organs are not fully formed yet. then - your parents should shake their heads and give you less freedom to be sleeping with boys at your age! Not to mention you should be tested for STDs etc... Next time you have sex wit until you are OLDER - have protection and are with someone you LOVE.

Have more respect for yourself and your body - you only get ONE!!!

2006-12-01 16:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0 0

Are you insane?? first off you should have never had sex at 11..and second off you weren't even protected!!!! Yeah you and your 11 year old sex partner are really going to be able to raise a baby..your babies your self~!! Tell your parents now......then run because if you were my kids I'd pull a nutty fit LOL GOOD LUCK

2006-12-01 15:41:44 · answer #11 · answered by mommyof372802 3 · 1 0

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