Are there any women out there who truely like to be dominant? Or do you really just want... [Please read rest]

Question

Like do you really just want everything to be nice and to be loved and nice things like that?

I'm vastly read and I don't reckon girls want to be tough.- If i tell my wife she's wonderful then she goes all like putty in my hands.

Answer 1

We don't want to be dominant over men or dominated by them. I prefer a reasonable balance of power in a relationships that shifts according to each person's needs emotionally financially etc.

Answer 2

So we can't be both?

I spent the last two days being very dominant towards (and ultimately firing) a temp at work. I"m generally what could be considered aggressive (I don't let people walk all over me and I'm not afraid of confrontation).

But, if the right guy told me I am wonderful, I'd probably melt in front of him.

Answer 3

Hi Oh, I wouldn't say that.In my relationship we share everything 50-50,and we don't conciser that one or the other is incontrol of anything.Sure if he tell me i am wonderful,it makes me even love him more.When i tell him i love him,he feels great all over,and he shows it.Either one of us try to dominant one or the other. It's like i said, A 50-50 relationship.That's the only way to have an relationship,if you what it to work out.One important thing.You MUST HAVE TRUST,OR YOU DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. A Friend Friend.

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