Today My BFF just started laughed out of no where. i ask her wut is ur deal and she said Ur face!!!! Ur face is too long then ur eyebrows just swop down, and nose is way out there and ur hair is always in ur face!!! I got SO mad at her. Wut if everyone thinks this and she was just the first to say it? Wut if I'm a freak? i mean at least 1 boy always likes me, but wut if there just wierd???? any tips?
2006-12-01 07:32:50 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow. Your "BFF" is a B*tch.
First course of action...kick her to the curb. She clearly doesn't care about you at all, or she'd never speak to you in such a horrific way. The fact that she just out-and-out attacked your looks says to me that someone she likes was paying you a bit more attention than her. Her attack sounds more like someone trying to convince themselves that they're prettier than you than someone who actually thinks these things.
Secondly...you didn't have problems with the way you looked before, why start now? You'd have known if you were a "freak " long before the b*tch of the week decided to make it her personal mission in life to cause you emotional pain. So don't stress about it.
Thirdly, I know it shouldn't matter, but the fact that "at least 1 boy" is attracted to you makes you so not a freak. Don't worry about him being "wierd" either...unless he's secretly got a thing for girls with peg legs or three nipples or something, hes probably a nice normal boy who thinks you're pretty.
2006-12-01 08:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Steal down please! OK first of all THINK!
Did she EVER REPEAT this to you EVERY DAY!"Ur face is too long then ur eyebrows just swop down, and nose is way out there and ur hair is always in ur face!!!"
If NO then she was just Joking ,Hyper,
and did not mean to hurt your fillings because
she's your BFF and she probably thought"She is
my BFF, she can take a joke, and she knows
I would never hurt her". You might of overreacted,that happens don't worry but you should tell her your sorry if you did Overreact to her joke, and if it relay did hurt you,you should talk and,tell her "I know you were joking and all but I did not relay like it."
And your BFF should understand you and you Two should be able to settle something out from there.
If YES she repeated the same line or a different line(that still hurts you) over an Over,you should talk to her and tell her to stop because that is not a True BBF that trys to hurt you ALL the time.
Well Good Luck and hope that Help you. ^_^
2006-12-01 08:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should have done was cuss her out and left it at that. Why continue calling her your "BFF" anyway? That's not a very good friend. Real friendship is not at all about looks or anything of the physical appearance. She sounds very silly and immature. You should love and appreciate yourself regardless to what anyone says. Does she look like Angelina Jolie or Cindy Crawford? No? Ok then. There's nothing wrong with you, baby girl. Love yourself.
2006-12-01 07:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its cliche but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Everyones opinion of what beauty is various from person to person. It is also possible that your friend is putting you down because she feels threatened by you. Perhaps she is threatened by your beauty. You need to eliminate negativity in your life. Leave this friend and find someone who appreciates your friendship and treats you kindly. If you think you are beautiful than shouldn't that be all that matters?
2006-12-01 07:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who call others "ugly" or something like that are usually either angry about something else, REALLY immature, or most probably, envious of the other person. She probably envies you and wants to make you feel bad...some friend!
Don't let her do this to you. Ditch her, after you tell her off (if you want...it might feel good to let off steam).
2006-12-01 07:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people think, If you are happy with yourself that's all that matters..Your BFF doesn't sound like much of a BFF either, she's probally just jealous or insecure with her self...
2006-12-01 07:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was just kidding.Don't take it serious.Have confidence on ur self.Remember onething that "everyone is perfect in their own way".She has no right to hurt ur feelings like this.Always think that"ONLY U R THE BEST"& will never feel sad.
2006-12-01 07:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get called fat by my friends all the time, and I'm not even that big! I weigh 135 and I'm 5'5. Most of it is muscle because I'm very athletic...so I guess I have the same question!
2006-12-01 07:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine0309 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it im sure ur a good looking girl so don't worry what ur friends says. She is probly just trying to make herself look better than you
2006-12-01 07:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being an idiot. you shouldn't case soo much and worry so much about what your friend says. you should enjoy the power and beauty of your youth because it will fade and in 20 years you will look back and think how good you looked you are not as fat or skinny or ugly or anything as you thought. the race is long and in the end its only with yourself remember compliments you recieve and forget the insults. maybe your friend just felt like being mean even if she didn't mean it maybe if that is wat you call your best friend FOREVER then is that wat your want a best friend to say to you?
2006-12-01 07:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋