I have a boyfriend who i've been going out with for serval months now. He asked me to marry him a few weeks back and because i love him i said yes. He is now saying that he wants to have a baby with me and i dont no what to do! I'm only 16. he's 18. HELP!!!
2006-12-01 07:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My heart goes out to you. You're very young. He's still young as well. Life is hard for people with college degrees. A baby is wonderful, beautiful, and innocent. It strengthens a bond, but does not hold it together. What happens when you want to go out with your friends? When the baby gets sick or you get sick what will you do? Are you wealthy? It's much easier for a man to say that he wants a baby and even easier to walk off and leave when he can't handle the responsibility. If he loves you then he will want what's best for you. That means allowing you to live the life God has destined for you. Please wait.
2006-12-01 09:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by AlwayzaLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it...Your only 16....Marriage shouldnt happen after 7 months. Haveing a baby just cuz he wants one - Nope! A baby is alot of work...Im 25 and have two kids...I was with my boyfriend for 7 years before we had kids...Guys will say anything to make you get attached to them...
2006-12-01 08:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are only 16.
2. You are way to young to be married.
3. You are way way to young to be having a child
4. You are still a child yourself.
5. Men tell you things to get into your pants.
6. YOU WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE!!
7. The answer below mine, by Kyrah is the best reason of all, please stay in school and learn to spell and articulate a sentence.
2006-12-01 07:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound almost like my boyfriend.if he can support u wen baby come n if u want a baby ushould?but if u don't relly love hime that much n don't wan a baby,dont do it girl
2006-12-01 07:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that marriage will have to wait until you are 18 and kids
will have to wait until you are 20...
2006-12-01 07:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents
2006-12-01 07:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instinct. You sound like you know it's not right for you.
2006-12-01 07:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe I'm too old to say something about that, but you shouldn't, you don't have to, you mustn't..... it's only your choice......after that there is no turning back, so my advise is-wait
2006-12-01 08:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Aurelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋