My fiance broke up with me last night. His work Christmas party is Saturday. His truck doesn't work well enough to drive 2 hours to the party. He wants to use my car. I said, "NO." He thinks I should help him because he is going to help me pay off some bills before he leaves. I supported him for 11 months with no financial support from him. He go a job 4 weeks ago and is making good money. Don't let him use the car right?
2006-12-01 07:20:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell naw girl! Let the guy suffer.
2006-12-01 07:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fianace had nerve to ask. Excuse me, ex-fiance, he can some how and some way find a ride on his own... He does not have any right to anything of yours anymore. And do not hold your breath, for some kind of payment of money from him for bills. If, he got such an awesome job, he can either rent a car or borrow a car from a friend. Certainly, not u. Good Luck With This Situation, Do Not Give In!!!!
2006-12-01 07:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by squeaky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's such a fuc kin jerk! why did he berak up with you? he's being an as s to you. Don't help him out either way- there's no reason why you should. You've already helped him enough by supporting him. Tell him to cal one of his friends or maybe his date to the X-mas party to help him and to quit buggin you. HE only told you that he will pay you for some bills so you can do him the favor of driving him to the party and that's all but- do you relly think he will pay you? he's an a s ss!!!! let him figure it out alone!
2006-12-01 09:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard everyone, great minds think alike. Girl dont let him use u like that, Tell him to get a taxy or get the grayhound, its not ur problem anymore. Besides he shouldnt throw stuff all at ur face (and he has not pay up yet so, if I was u i would tell him, well i help u pay ur bills for 11 months , so "Taxi") Psst what??
2006-12-01 07:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a ride or take a bus. I doubt seriously if he will pay your bills. Or if you are going to drive that far then he should take you as a guest to the party as well. You could network and meet new people.
2006-12-01 07:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you don't let him use the fu*cking car! No kidding though? He really has some balls eh? Isn't it amazing? Anyone in a relationship who bases it upon "I did for you so you did for me" is not someone you want to spend the rest of your days with.
be thankful you're rid of the bum. Now go find a real man to date. The time for dating boys is over.
2006-12-01 07:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, be glad that he did break up with you. If he broke up with you over something so small, silly, ridiculous, then when times were tough in marriage he would have skipped out on you for sure then. He did you a favor. He will come crawling back, I say kick him in the teeth.
2006-12-01 07:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him since he is now making money to go rent a car for the day.
2006-12-01 07:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Janine E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can go with a friend who is going to the party, or he can skip it altogether. The important thing is you were right not to let him use your car.
2006-12-01 07:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his name is not on the title to the vehicle, than you are not responsible for his transportation. Remember, he broke up with you...he needs to be in charge of his own life now. You are not the one that needs to be accountable for his actions.
2006-12-01 07:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right .Tell Him Stick His Thumb out Or Walk.
2006-12-01 07:50:45 · answer #11 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋