My friend likes me as a gf but i dont even like him as a friend.he is always huggin me n tryin to touch me.its uncomfertable.When ever i hold my bf he comes over and yells at me.im a nice person,so i dont no what to say to him to make him back off.what should i say with out making him cry? he crys easily..
2006-12-01 07:17:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, I know how awkward that feels. What you have to do first of all though is sit him down and explain to him that he's being a little too personal. It's okay if he cries; he needs to understand that he's crossing some lines or he isn't going to stop. And you don't have to be harsh about it; you say you're a nice person so it'll probably be no problem at all. Don't accuse him of being suffocating or tell him to find someone who's single, because that'll make him feel like a complete loser. Just explain that you aren't a very physical person and you'd like him to back off. If he continues after that, then you need to start being a little colder.
2006-12-01 07:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you feel uncomfortable with other boys hugging you. Stop hanging out with him, and ignore him when he starts yelling at you when your with your bf. Tell him that you want personal time with your bf and to leave you alone. He'll hopefully get the hints.
If he doesn't calmly tell him "Our friendship is over."
2006-12-01 15:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him your feeling nice and easy . And maybe it will be a better idea to tell him that you are dayting someone else.
2006-12-01 15:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by davida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to get a life and to leave you alone.
2006-12-01 15:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by vv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋