I want to attract a man, but I don't want my flirtations to be too forward. I am not sure how he feels about me, sometimes I get the vibe that he is interested. What things can I say, email, or do so that he gets my drift without me being too forward ?
And yes, he is married and so am I. I am not looking for judgements here, not to be rude, but you don't have to answer and tell me what I am doing is wrong. I am looking for people who maybe have had an experience and can provide me with some hints.
2006-12-01 07:14:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, it's just being yourself. If he feels you're trying, he may get cold feet and back off. Just watch and let time play the main factor, to the mystery. It will come out. When the opportunity arises, a flirt of the eyes and body language play a big role. (I don't judge, only God can do that !)
2006-12-01 07:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He very well may be interested in you. Just because someone is married doesn't mean that they stop being attracted to others. It is human nature. I am married and find other men attractive. However, I do not cross any lines. I am faithful to the man I married; the man I love.
You need to be careful. He might be attracted to you but, that doesn't mean he WANTS you. It doesn't mean that he would cheat on his wife.
You are playing with fire here. It could backfire on you. He could get your hint and tell your husband. Do you want to lose your marriage? There is no good answer for you. Take time and observe him. Dress sexy or act playful and see if he hits on you. It is the only way you will find out without coming right out and asking him.
Be careful.
2006-12-01 07:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to wear a elaborate Jar Jar Binks costume and mask as part of my every day life. I went to the grocery store, and saw how depressed everyone was so I thought I would help. I started dancing in the aisles, and yelling at people, and running up to people and taking things out of their cart. It was great fun. Then when I went to check out, there was only one lane open and a long line. I screamed and screamed while in line and danced, bumping into other people. I opened a box of baking soda and threw it around. Finally I got to the checkout. I started making noises at the cashier, and I kept pressing buttons on the computer. Some people in line were groaning because the line was getting very long, but that gave me even more incentive to make them laugh. I climbed onto the table and started kicking peoples groceries on the floor and singing. The manager and one of his goons pulled me off and said I could never shop there again. Can I sue for harrasement or possibly assualt?
2006-12-01 07:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hint: Ask his wife if he's available, you are being selfish, self centered, displaying a lack of morals and values and have no regard for the covenant of marriage. Does the thought of bringing pain and tears to your spouse and his not give you a clue into your deceit or are you really that self absorbed?
Read Dr. Phils views on this below.
2006-12-01 08:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation at work. I would like the girl to be more forward. Guys always have that sexual harrasment thought in the back of their head, so they have to be more careful. I think he would like to know, regardless of whether or not he feels the same way. Ask him to go to lunch, that is the best start. Make jokes about going out after work.
2006-12-01 10:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way to find out if there could be an attraction is just to keep on talking to him. There really is no true way to ever find out if there is an attraction there unless you tell him your attracted to him or even ask him if he is attracted to you. Seeing that you both are married just be prepared for the worst that he could say and hope for the best that he may say good luck to you
2006-12-01 07:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to get bombarded with judgements. You are actually PLANNING to betray your husband and attempt to convince another man to betray his wife. This is even worse than someone who gets drunk and has a one night stand.
Do married people find themselves attracted to each other? Happens all the time. People need to learn to control these things. You guys will eventually get caught and you will wish you had listened.
2006-12-01 07:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he's not a lying cheater and no matter what you did to get into his pants, he won't let you. It's possible he gets your drift loud and clear and is choosing not to respond. It's possible he knows what you're up to and finds it distasteful. It's possible that he enjoys meaningless, pleasant interactions with men and women and it doesn't mean he's interested in betraying his wife.
Believe it or not, some married men don't take that road. Don't be so quick to judge other people with your own low standards.
2006-12-01 07:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 00:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire here. Just tell him how you feel about him. If he reciprocates, get your groove on. But, you are walking a fine line. It would be better to avoid contact, since you are both married. So, it is your choice. You have to take the good with the bad, or visa versa......Merry Christmas......
2006-12-01 07:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋