Why and when do husbands beat their wives?

Answer 1

Men beat their wives when they are frustrated and feel they are unable to control their wives actions.

I don't know when a man beats his wife. When ever she is unable to get away from him I suppose.

The saying is "frustration leads to aggression."

It is my sincere hope you do not beat anyone.

Answer 2

When the Wives allow & accept the beatings.

Answer 3

In England it is against the law for a husband to beat his wife and a wife to beat the husband and yes, this does happen.
Why do they beat? well the type of man that does this, who in reality should not be called a man for that is an insult to a true man who is decent and protects his woman. Anyway, a person that beats a woman is a bully yet a terrible coward, for they pick on women whom they believe can not and will not fight back, yet if they were faced with another man then you would see the difference in them if you could catch up with them while they are too busy, running away. Every single person on this planet has human rights and no one has the right to beat another.If anyone is in that position, then it is your right to leave immediately and report the bully to the proper authorities

Answer 4

hai,
I was beaten up just the day after my marriage!!!! I could not imagine what was happening.Then i realized the most horrific reality...i am gonna be stuck with this man for the rest of my LIFE !!!! The reason for beating me for the past 4 years since marriage according to him has been...that , he being a man/husband, has all the right in the world to beat me. I was young to realize there are ways to get out of this mess. I used to go home each time this happened but then he would make phone calls apologising !!! That made me return back to him.Then again for some stupid reason he would beat me up again.This cycle continued till i gave birth to a beautiful baby. I hoped and prayed that things would change , but only from bad to worse. I loved him unconditionally. Each time he apologised i thought he would never repeat it,I trusted his words each time. Divorce has never popped up in my mind coz i really didnt know if i could cope up without him !!! it might sound silly coz the other days were filled with lot of fun and happiness.When his mind clears up he would tell me that he need help coz he knows he has no right to beat me up.
Touch wood !!! things have cleared from last year .I am sure some men do not do it on purpose and some do. Fortunately my husband always regretted beating me up.He feels more bad coz i have been with him inspite of all this.I am really not advising anyone to go thru it, but unfortunately i cannot survive without him , emotionally . Today he has made a huge difference in our lives. I hope and pray this life continues like this.The emotional scare has been so deep , it still hasnt healed in me, but i can see how hard he tries to make up for everything he has done.
He has told me how tough his childhood was. He used to be smacked for all reasons...and ragged very badly in his college days. Seniors used to literally beat him up so badly!!! I sincerely didnt want him to feel sour for the rest of his life if his marriage broke up as well !!!!
U asked Why and When , this is my experience.
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Answer 5

violence begins when love ends. there is something seriously wrong with your relationship, however there are a certain questions which need to be answered before we can find a remedy. Is this man habitually violent or does he indulge in violence under the influence of liquor or drugs or of some family members, in any of these scenarios the only option for you would be to leave him, and the sooner the better, if the violence is specifically directed towards you and not towards anyone or anything else then you need to find out a little more , if he is thinking you are a doormat then give him back for all that you are worth, if necessary call the police, if there is a problem with your relationship then find out does he suspect you of something, or is there some misplaced fear, speak to him no man in his right mind will hit a woman, but what ever you do do not allow yourself to be a puncing bag, a lot of us will take it for the sake of our children family and other compulsions, but let me assure you your children will be better of without him than growing up in an atmosphere where they see their mother getting beaten........think about it .

Answer 6

For some reason, guys that spent there entire childhood getting punked turn into wife or kid beaters. Since they got there azz beat so much, they have a chance to prey on someone else and return the favor. Some guys grew up seeing there fathers do that to mom and see it a natural.

Answer 7

it`s their thinking that a wife is no more than a puppet or an object......and they think that being a husband its their right to treat their wives as they want..... beating their wives is no big deal for them!!!

Answer 8

Wife beating husbands have low self esteem. They are losers in life. Instead of accepting their own faults and taking charge of their own life, they soft target their wives and resort to wife beating.

Answer 9

Husbands who beat their wives are mentally ill and unpredictable.

Answer 10

the cycle of violence is never predictable.violent attacks ,the physical ...usually start right after the birth of the first child.if you are being emotionally /verbally abused now and pregnant,theworst may be yet to come.Often the abuser witnessed violence in his own childhood or was a victim himself.It is power and control and there is a choice,they know when and who not to do it in front of in most cases.After the child is born violence can and does increase.Talk to your local transition house for resources.Don't let him get away with this behaviour,and protect the children they see and hear more than you think.children ARE affected even if they only witness the abuse or hear it.........