Found a text message on his cell phone one night just by chance. I questioned him, asked him who it was.. of course he wouldnt tell me. I figured it was this woman he knew through a society he belonged to. He told me it wasnt. Well today i found out that it was this woman from her own husband. It was a bit of work, but i was able to get this womans husband on the phone and asked him if they had the certain cell number that i had found on my hubs phone.. BINGO.. it was. Now, what do i do with this info? I want to nail that bimbo's *** to the wall.. obviously. Any suggestions people????
2006-12-01 07:11:04 · 24 answers · asked by snowbunny67ss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes 2 parties were involved, and the party i lived with is now living in a motel.. aww bummer for him! Now its her turn to reap her reward... Loved Pooks answer, maybe her hub is hot??
2006-12-01 07:15:36 · update #1
i know for a fact he was cheating.. i read a lovely message on his cell phone that she text to him.. believe me, there is no doubt that he was being unfaithful...
2006-12-01 07:17:24 · update #2
Thank u all for ur thoughts. I have dealt with my husband and was of course furious with him for what he did. After i dealt with that, i told him he needs to leave, which he did. Why do i want this bimbo's *** on a platter? Well, she knew he was married as was she. Why should she get away "scott free" and not have to endure some of my wrath? I blame him first and then her. Also, i dont appreciate what one person wrote that this could be my fault? I didnt hold his hand and take him to her and say.. "here have an affair" Im 39 and have been married to this guy for almost 20yrs. Im open and communication has always been a BIG part of our relationship. Apparently not as big as i thought though. I have blamed myself for what happened, but honestly in my opinion i didnt make him do anything he didnt want to do. I told him as he was leaving.. "hope she was worth it" He now doesnt have me or our kids, and since the bimbo is married he doesnt have her either..looks good on him
2006-12-02 02:25:57 · update #3
tell him to get his act together if he wants to stay with you and if he continues to hide stuff from you then get rid of him. as for the girl go kick her ***.
2006-12-01 07:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you got part of your revenge because you told her husband that you found his wife's number in your husbands phone, I think that will piss him off and that will cause problems for that woman. Now you need to focus on your husband and ask him why did he have this woman's cell number in his phone, and why did he lie to you about it. If he was not doing any thing wrong then he would not of lied to you about it. As women we always blame the other women and not our spouse or boyfriend, the other women would not be there if he did not want her to be there, so we must start to look at the men in our lives and start to blame them for the other women that they decide to cheat with, we need to get ride of these cheating dogs and let them know that we want men that are going to love us and respect us and come to us when there is a problem in our relationship. I'm not saying that there is no second chance but we need to let them know that we are not going to stand by and let them treat us this way. Enough is enough. One more thing never give them the chance to choose between you and the other woman, you should make the choice of staying or leaving. The only choice that he should have is to be grateful that you stayed with hm if you decide to do so. Good luck..
2006-12-01 15:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course u want to nail her *** to a wall, who wouldn't. As for the wifes husband, what is he going to do as well? Hopefully, your both smart enough and resolve this soon, cheating in my book, is a big NO-NO-NO!!!! Both of you should meet at a restaurant or somewhere and set your other half's up. Tell them you want to go out to dinner and meet at the same restaurant and the same time, same everthing. Don't put up with anyone including your husband or his wife doing this to you. Noone should. There are to many other people out there that will treat u better. Once a cheater always a cheater, sorry hate to say that, but that is the truth... No matter how much they will say they will never do it again. And he or she has killed the bond of trust that you both once had. Never Again, Sorry!!! Resolve this as soon as possible!!!! Go kick some but..... Good Luck In Doing That!!
2006-12-01 15:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This women is wrong but you need to nail him to the wall. He is the only person that hurt your marriage.You can cause problems in her marriage by talking to her husband and letting him know whats going on. Would that stop your husband from being a cheater ? Telling her husband can make things stop between this woman or would they. They might try to cover their tracks a little better. Men dont plan they just react women plan thats why her husband has no clue of what she is doing.
2006-12-01 15:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he was cheating -- a cell phone number does not sound much like catching him red handed...neither from what you are telling us is the text message. If you are certain he is cheating, why bother with the woman? Your husband is your real problem, figure out how you want to deal with him. Her husband can deal with her.
2006-12-01 15:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i know first hand how it feels to be angry at the other woman but dont forget she didnt do anything your husband didnt allow so dont misplace your anger for him on her. Deal with your husband first she will get hers especially now that her husband knows about the affair dont concentrate so much on her deal with the issues at home first even if u go and beat the holy hell out of her u and your husband will still have issues.
2006-12-01 15:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh,heh...fu*cking electronics get 'em every time. See boys? Go ahead and give that skank you're cell phone number. You just beg to get jammed up.
As for you lady jane...Fu*ck the broad. Why don't you grow some hair and kick your husband square in the balls? Who gives a sh*it about her. The bone of contention you have lies with your husband. She'll get hers soon enough without your help. Stick with your problems on the home front.
2006-12-01 15:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time for you to put this aside. She was not and is still not, your problem. If you threw this guy out then that should be the end of it.
You can continue to operate like the victim with bitterness and revenge on your mind or you can move on.
There is one thing I do know. Continued bitterness does nothing but show why he might have wanted to go elsewhere.
2006-12-01 15:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now that the cat's out of the bag, I think this bimbo's husband will deal with her, don't you think?
Just out of curiosity, are you not more upset with your husband right now than with this bimbo? After all, HE is the one who cheated on you and lied about it.
2006-12-01 15:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, kelly has a point there. you cant blame it all on the lady. but you should also tell her husband about whats going on. I'm sure he'd be pleased to hear that his wife is cheating on him. And if you cant trust your husband now, you won't be able to trust him ever again. If i were you, i'd file a divorce, and keep your life moving.
2006-12-01 15:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Amy da QT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell them you know what's up and then if you want to stick it out do so other than that move on without him because obviously this is a HUGE problem you won't let go soon.
2006-12-01 16:03:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋