would you forgive your boyfriend if he had sex with another girl while dating you.
2006-12-01 07:09:34 · 33 answers · asked by I_Luv_Bois 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Only forgive him if you are willing to truly let it go. If you plan on being a warden because you are afraid it will happen again, or you are going to bring it up every argument you have then let him go. As mush for yourself as for him. You will not ever be happy with him if you feel like he may do it again. You also need to question how much respect he has for you if he did that, why do you want to stay. If however you had not agreed to be with only each other yet..you may be able to let it slide. Personally I would leave him before you are any more emotionally invested.
2006-12-01 07:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Farah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, I say no. However, there are possibilities. It would depend on how long I have been in the relationship. What was the reason for his action; i.e. have there been underlying problems in our relationship, etc. Is he sincerely remorseful?
If the relationship was a short lived one, I'd tell him to take a hike. If every thing was fine between us and he just went out and slept around, I would dump him.
If I were involved in a long term relationship that had been for a very long time, monogamous, faithful and healthy, I might give him a chance. Did you fight? Did you break his heart in some way that drove him into other arms?
It really just depends on the individual situation. However, regardless of the reasons why, if you are not able to find TRUE forgiveness in your heart, you have no choice but to end it. It will never last without forgiveness and re-established trust.
2006-12-01 07:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, especially if it is just a boyfriend. Obviously he doesn't care enough about you to realize that cheating is the number one no-no in dating. Alot of people will tell you to forgive and forget under some circumstances, but there is never a good excuse for cheating. If you truly love him, then do what your heart tells you, but you know deep down that you will never be able to forgive him, then let him go.
2006-12-01 07:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by jazminestarhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have in past but one has to ask as to why he has comunication breakdown or he needs mroe experience with raging hormones. If your to go on in this what does each of you expect and accept. lay it on the table now before your pregant an you heart is way invested. I thin k he is not ready fro seriosuness and he cheated. not becuase of you arent pretty etc dont take it to make you feel so low and bad which can and will happen. some guys want to play and are insecure abotu their own high up egos learn now before its to late. talk this all out what you expect and what he expects from you! and .. where is this going.. if hes iffy and doesnt know then he aint ready break up now;.
2006-12-01 08:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how long we have been together. Also, I would slap the HELL out of him. If he is sleeping around he doesn't need to be my boyfriend, we should just be friends. Therefore, he can run wild and find out what he really wants out of a relationship.
2006-12-01 07:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by One deep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have......Let me tell You It hurts so bad when its just the two of you later and you get a mental pic of them together....It made me cringe with disgust and betrayal....But the thing is I did forgive him
But girl DON'T just don't do it......Good Luck...
2006-12-01 07:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but only because im not your AVERAGE girlfriend. Because of my experiences, i go into a relationship expecting some kind of infidelity and wanting honesty. I tell my bf that i always want him to be honest with me and if he decides to sleep around let me know so we can check for stds and be safe, because regardless of who he sleeps with he's always going to be mine,and if a girl is able to steal him from me than it wasnt meant to be.
2006-12-01 07:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't. I would let him keep her since he obviously wants her more than me and find me someone else. There's plenty of fish in the ocean and I don't want the rotting ones. I want the good ones.
2006-12-01 07:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a really hard person so probably n a fews years i would. {lol} no bt seriously if u love him u most likely would unless they been hav'n a relationship behind ur back in besides that would be cheat'n on u.
2006-12-01 07:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never!!!
if this happened 2 me i wouldnt forgive him because that girl must have had something i didnt...and he might not find that something in me...and why if i would never be able to trust again...
2006-12-01 07:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by happpygurl13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋