ok there this girl @ my skol and i start talking to her (she's gay) and i find myself falling 4 her at 1 point i like her at an other point i dnt so im i or not please help
2006-12-01 07:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe you just like her because you're gettign to know her... or maybe you are just bicurous... a lot of people go through a stage where they experiment.
2006-12-01 07:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to work it out on your own. When I was younger, I had very close, intense friendships with a few girls.... I actually dated one of these girls. Sometimes those feelings confused me, and I thought perhaps I was heterosexual. It didn't take too long for me to realize that I was definitely gay.
When something goes against your nature, there's no way you can force it even if you want to. Just give it a little time, and it will eventually be crystal clear to you.
2006-12-01 15:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young to be thinking of this and perhaps your parents can give you guidance on it. It might help to talk with them, and consider waiting until you're older and can make these choices better on your own knowing all the things you need to. Let your parents know what's on your mind for now, and listen to what they can tell you..
2006-12-01 17:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. In all people with whom we have a friendship there is an imperfection, there are likes and dislikes, good anf bad sides..since nobody is perfect. Whether u prefer a friendship or a relation with her is totally dependent on you. So just let it go the way it goes..
2006-12-01 17:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your feelings. You can tell her whats going on in your head and heart. Maybe she will tell you her feelings and you will find a connection that you both have. It will either produce a love between you both, or maybe a lasting friendship. Good luck.
2006-12-01 15:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your confused , just take it slow. Think about what you really want.First , have you ever felt this way before? think about you ,and go from there. It may just turn out to be a great friendship you seek.
2006-12-01 15:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by srstephens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u adore her.........if u think u'll b comfrtable with her even with hr bad points which u dnt like thn go ahead.all the best!God Bless!
2006-12-01 15:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to know...just do what feels good and right for YOU..You don't need a label to tell you who you are.
2006-12-01 15:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U may just be curious. it could be sumthin that might pass in time.
2006-12-01 15:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if she can teach you to spell.
2006-12-01 16:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋