My birthday was yesterday and everyone forgot. I still feel bad and a bit unappreciated. I've reminded a few and they just brushed it aside. How can I make myself feel better? Am I being immature?
2006-12-01 06:25:52 · 10 answers · asked by catch22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
especially around this time...people have alot on their minds ...don't feel unappreciated i am sure they love and care for you..just caught up with the holiday season, bills, and everything else...always have in mind you are great...treat yourself to something you love....you are not being immature....we all wants some attention especially on your birthday...happt belated birthday!!!! i am sure they will remember...
2006-12-01 06:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by justaxica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18, my girlfriends forgot my birthday, I cried my eyes out! After they realised, they felt really bad, and went out of their ways to treat me. They were so nice, I felt I was the immature person.
Two years ago, I forgot my husband's birthday when we moved to a new country. Due to the stress of new location, new job and no friends, I only realised it one week later. Oh, my heart still ache whenever I think of that. I even hated myself for a while.
I am sure some thing will work out for you! and Believe me! You'd rather others forget your birthday than forgetting someone's birthday!
Happy belated Birthday!!
2006-12-01 06:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by pathanChe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, happy birthday!! Second of all, maybe you have reminded them a bit too much. They are probably tired of hearing it, and just didn't want to be annoyed anymore. What I think you should do to make yourself feel better is getting yourself something nice. Or maybe you should pamper yourself the whole day. Just do something that pleasures YOU, and not anyone else! You should have a day to enjoy yourself.
2006-12-01 06:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy with something and try not to let it cosume you. It was no fair that you were over looked but there is not much you can do about it without looking petty.
By the way, Happy Belated Birthday!
Smile and feel good about yourself.
2006-12-01 06:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rosey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, either your friends are planning something for you and are intentionally giving you the cold shoulder or, you are not as popular as you think you are. If nothing happens in the next couple days (being the weekend and great surprise party throwing time) then it is time for you to take personal inventory. Be brutally honest with yourself.
2006-12-01 06:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u know they probably have a surpirse party planned for u just tell peeeps that u are however old now and they might ask when and u can remind them but i bet its th eparty ;P
2006-12-01 06:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
maybe they are planning a surprise party?
maybe you can throw yourself a birthday party?
and no i dont think you are being immature that does suck.. i am sorry!
2006-12-01 06:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well first of all happy B-DAY and dont worry about it some people forgot my to but dont think negative and dont worry
2006-12-01 06:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes get over it i mean, ur gettin older anyways.....so why do u care i mean, when their bday rolls around and they say: WHAT ARE U GETTIN ME 4 MY BDAY?? just say: SAME THING U GOT ME and they'll get the message
2006-12-01 06:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
2006-12-01 06:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋