Well im a girl of 14 and i have being seeing this boy for quite a while. He is 17 years old and he considers me as hes best friend. He has a girlfriend and he only went out with her after i said no to him. I don't see him as my friend. My friend thinks I may be in love. Yesterday we were going to meet but he didn't come. I was left there crying my heart out. Now he asks me to forgive him and I dont know what to do? Should I forget the issue or just leave him ? Please answer me because tomorrow I am going to see him while I go out and I dont know what to do.
2006-12-01 06:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Okay, you told him that you only wanted to be friends so he is seeing another girl. Why you sat and cried your eyes out over him not showing up is beyond me, but that is besides the point. Tell him how you really feel about him and stop playing games with his emotions, by doing this, you are hurting yourself - hence the crying your eyes out when he didn't show. If you like him "that" way then tell him. Tell him that you were upset that he stood you up, tell him that it would have been nice of him to let you know that he couldn't make it for whatever reason. Have an adult conversation about things, and since he has already apologized, forgive him. If he becomes a repeat offender, then let him go, you are better off without friends like that.
2006-12-01 06:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a bit confused because you say you turned him down (leaving you to be friends) but that you don't see him as your friend.
Regardless, whether you're friends or something more, it was rude for him to stand you up. Why you'd "cry your heart out" about it, though, I'm also not sure.
He apologized, and I think you should accept his apology while also letting him know that it hurt your feelings and that friends (or otherwise) should respect each other's time and the commitments that they make to each other. Then put it behind you. Assuming he continues to treat you well, you're all set.
2006-12-01 14:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said no! Since you still give him the time of day, especially since he is seeing someone else, he probably thinks you will always be there when he's not with his other girl....This is trash, if you want him, and he want to see you, tell him to stop seeing her. This isn't right, this is how many nice men end up cheaters and hurt the people who love them and that they truly love too. If he chooses not to leave her, or if he cant prove he has.....move on.....you can still be friends, but in this case it sounds very risky to your emotions as well as to the other girl he's seeing....Hope you make the right decision:)
2006-12-01 18:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bristow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a hard one to answer. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel about being stood up. tell him if he didn't want to see you then he should just come out and say it. tell him that it hurted you bad and you thought you were friends. I hope that you find what you want and good luck.
2006-12-01 14:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
heyy im 14 too! if a guy did that to me i would never talk to him again and just move on! dont worry about that stupid ****! if someone dose that then that just means that they dont care! i would just move on if i were you! no man is worth crying over!
2006-12-01 14:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by why hello there 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone closer to your age, In a year your jail bait for him
2006-12-01 14:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forgive him once.. if he does it again find something else to occupy your time.
2006-12-01 14:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Britni Gayle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋