I'm a capricorn who is a good friend to a cancer guy.
I have a cancer male friend who is quite the player ...to say the least. he tells me about how he lies to the women in his life, then complaints when he has personal problems.
Recently, he been giving me reasons to believe that he is interested in a relationship with me.
Sorry but I don't trust him because of his track rocord with other girls. Plus, he has a children by a woman he was having casual sex with -- he happens to be a capricorn too.
I'm way too precautious to even imagine having a future with this guy .... Do cancer men usually down? I think my friend needs to settle soon, before he gets to deep into his games.
***** I have heard that most cancer men some of the biggest players ***** Thats just what I've heard and observed
2006-12-01 06:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
OH NO! His child doesn't bother me at all. The only thing that bothers me is that he didn't have an actual relationship with the woman who gave birth to the baby.
LOL, I love children :) I'm just worried that his carelessness could lead to other things. Plus, we are just friends at the moment .. I'm making sure that it stays that way until I see more out of him.
2006-12-01 11:52:42 · update #1
Wow! I could have sworn I was reading about my ex-boyfriend. He was a Cancer and a huge player. He has 2 kids with one cutty buddy and just had another one with another casual sex partner. However, I didn't find out about these women and children from him because he was a compulsive liar and still denies it to this day. His mom finally told me one day about the kids and how he was lying to and cheating on me. I actually was pregnant by him last year when I found out that he had another girl pregnant at the same time which in turn caused me to have a miscarriage. As mean as it may sound, I'm glad I didn't have a kid with him. He wants all these kids but doesn't want to commit to any of these women.
Don't get involved with this guy hon! They come off as charming and they can lie so convincingly that they can make you believe that the moon is actually a big balloon but don't fall for the sweettalk. I thought this guy was the one at first but after a year and a half he was still at the "I don't know" stage. They're a complete waste of time because they'll never commit or be honest but will expect you to be completely devoted to them. I'm Aquarius and I always read that it's my sign that's bad for his but I think that applies to Cancer women and Aquarius men. Cancer men are just as bad. I was the one waiting for a committment and that's coming from a freedom loving Aquarian.
2006-12-01 12:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tiacola Version 9.0 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I'm a capricorn who is a good friend to a cancer guy.
I have a cancer male friend who is quite the player ...to say the least. he tells me about how he lies to the women in his life, then complaints when he has personal problems.
Recently, he been giving me reasons to believe that he is...
2015-08-23 05:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being a cancer man, i would say the the last comment is a little off. we are known for that because , even with how nice we can be we can be quite cold to a person we dont see in our future. however we can be the most loyal men once we do infact settle down. cancers are known for their loyalty.
as for falling in love with his best friend, cancers love familiar surroundings, so it could be possible. hes comfortable around you and his insecurities could be at rest. cancers can possibly be the most insecure sign in the zodiac, which is why we are known sometimes to be the biggest players. im personally not a player but i sure do have my insecurities.
a little tip: if his children bother you i would definatly tell him upfront before even thinking about getting involved ...
2006-12-01 11:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The faster and harder you two get involved, the more your unconscious minds are driving the relationship. This is not good, because our unconscious is where we throw our psychological garbage, and when the unconscious drives our attraction, it operating off our shame and fear and it chooses someone who will do that to us ... Which means that there will be lots of problems once the infatuation has worn off (2 years at the lastest). Please slow it down a bit, for your own sake. For your son's sake too ... who doesn't need to get close to men who are likely to leave his life again. He treats you like his princess now. Not after the infatuation has died out. Once the infatuation has died out he will treat you like he treats, his family, strangers, drivers who annoy him, etc. This why you have to take a long time to get to see how he treats OTHER people. To see if he pockets the wallet he found on the sidewalk, or turns it in complete with all the money in it ... or if he cheats on his income tax. People without moral values tend to cheat on their spouse. So you have to date for a long time, observing their decisions. You can't ask them ... words can so easily lie, but actions do not. As for the astrology of it, to get any accurate answers, you must do up timed birth charts for both of you .. done using the day-month-year, hour-minute, location of birth. The relationship is likely to last long-term if, and only if, one person has their Ascendant or Descendant within 8 degrees of the other person's Sun or Moon or Venus or Mars. Unless this type of contact is present between the two timed birth charts, it's not likely to last.
2016-03-17 03:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... I'm sorry, what was the question?
Yes. Every single 'cancer man' behaves exactly the same. All 250,000,000 of them. Yup, for sure.
2006-12-02 19:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋