Separation for a job?

Question

I was two years separated from my husband for my job. Then, I quit the job and live with my husband happily. Now, I got two job offers in current state and another state. The job in another state is exactly what i was looking for. But, if I take it, we have to be separated again. Now, we don't have kids and I think I want to get more proffessional experience before I become pregnant. What do you think?

Answer 1

Get more professional experience, since you are leaning in that direction anyway.

Answer 2

This is something you need to discuss with your husband and possibly try to come up with a compromise. For example: If this job that you want is going to interfere with your marriage because of separation, why can't your husband find a job in that state also and move there with you? You didn't say how long the job is for but if it's not possible for your husband to move there, you can always take turns visiting each other. I say get the experience that you need. An opportunity like this might be hard to come by.

Answer 3

Why can't your husband find a job in the other state?????

I say stay where your husband is or move him where you need to be, but separating for a job, the job better be worth the risk.

Get the experience before getting preggers.

Answer 4

With a long separation, you take the chance there will be no one to get you pregnant. Think before you leap.

Answer 5

If you're making more than him then he should just move to another state with you. Men are always making women move around for their jobs.

Answer 6

you answered your own question. it's exactly what you were looking for and you want more professional experience before you have kids. go for it!