A relationship is about mutual love and respect.Both must give to one another If you just give or just take it is wrong and wont work both must share A true relationship does not rely on material things but from the heart
2006-12-01 05:52:05
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answered by woodsonhannon53 6
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You have a wonderful attitude, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! As long as you are not being taken advantage of, you should be free to fall in love with anyone you choose. If you find that special person who cares for you, money and possessions shouldn't matter in the least. :-)
Sometimes, the guys who brag about what they have may actually be more intimidated by you! Next time, just tell him that he should relax because you like people for how big their heart is, not their wallet.
2006-12-01 15:19:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Strange question. I have learned in life that those who have no car, have no home, have nothing to speak of are those who are not willing to work as I am. I prefer not to be an enabler to this kind of person. There was a time when I stupidly thought that everyone who was down and out was there for lack of opportunity. I found out I was very wrong. No matter what you do for many people, they will take you for what they can, then hate you when the supply is cut off.
I share nothing about my status with people I have just met...it is none of their business. If they do not like me for ME, then I have no use for them.
Be very careful about who you decide to "lift up"...you are not a white knight on a huge charger. You are you, not the answer to world hunger. Good luck
2006-12-01 13:50:31
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answered by Anonymous
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I totally agree with you. When I met my husband he had nothing I came from a very wealthy family, but I could see that he had a good heart and the motivation to do better in life. If you start a relationship with someone only coz they have material possessions and income they might loose everything tomorrow. I am not saying start a relationship with someone who is homeless but start a relationship with someone with who you click and who has a good heart, irrelevant of their income and material possessions.
Hope this help.
2006-12-01 13:54:51
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answered by mmmm 1
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I've been on both sides of the fence on this one. When I met my current boyfriend, he had nothing and still lived with his parents. But who am I to judge. I liked him. And I thought he had a good heart. He went back to college shortly after we met, and graduated, and then got a great job making more money than me. Sure I had to pay for dinner once in a while, but I had faith and now hes doing well for himself, and he is so appreciative of the support i gave while he was trying to make something of himself. And just seeing him happy and successful is payback enough for me. On the other hand, my first boyfriend, was a bum with no drive, but I liked him, and he had a good heart. But after 2 years of him mostly being unemployed and having no car for more than a week before he would wreck it, I realized that he didtn even care about himself so there was no way he could care for me. You have to read each person individually on this issue. But if were single, and met a guy, say, in a bar or something, and he rode there with his friends cuz he has no car, hit on me so i would buy him a drink, cuz he has no money cuz he has no job, cuz he has no car. And had to get his buddies to take him home before they were ready, cuz he lives with his parents still and even though hes 30 its still their house their rules. um, yeah that would be a red flag, but thats an extreme case.
2006-12-01 14:19:21
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answered by Let ME be President! 4
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Not only relationships but life is not about material possessions. Loving someone doesn't involve taking...It involves giving.
2006-12-01 14:33:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Sum people are like that they take take take and never give in return (men and women) but sum are like u who dont mind sharin there wealth. Me personally i really dont care what they have as long as they treat me right i am happy. Cuz i do for myself so i dont need what they have to offer but there love.
2006-12-01 15:40:38
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answered by Nina 2
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