My boyfriend is gonna "take me out" saturday night and he keeps tellin me he has a surprise for me that u cant rap up i just have to be brave to DO IT! well i'm exited and i'm barely 12! lol
2006-12-01 05:38:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
ARE YOU SERIOUS!!! Or are you just trying to funny? Is that where the 'LOL" part comes in? Because if it is true and you think it is funny, it is NOT! Your only 12. You should not even be allowed to have a boyfriend. You should not even be asking those type of questions. Your questions should be more like how much is 33,946x11,444=?
This really isn't funny.
2006-12-01 05:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra Solano 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless your partner is an inexperienced aggressive moron, and I strongly urge you to refrain from fornication, thus if you choose to engage in sexual activity with your bf then limit it to oral pleasure, and be absolutely sure that you're both ready and willing to do so without the worry of guilt, regret, and or the possibility of parental punishment that often follows such choices... Many people will tell you not to do it, and in many cases they're opinions will be logical, but the bottom line is that you are going to make the choice regardless of other opinions so please consider all the facts before making a decision...
2006-12-01 13:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget what all these people are saying and think. Yes your age is young but do you love him i mean really love him. Would you die for him or vice versa. how long have you been with him? What is his past record?
Well, whats dumb about all the people answering this question is y'all are too concerned about her age, which is too young, but if you are going to do this you need to be prepared.
First since you are young it will hurt, a lot, because you are not fully developed down there.
Second, You need to make sure you have condoms, bring your own cuz he might try to play the ole i forgot them but i know what im doin, and he dont. dont listen to him if he gives you any reason not to use them, oh and he might try to tell you it will take all the good feeling out, do not listen to his dumb *** because this is some crap. Normally if you use a lubricant to get you really wet (and you are going to need to be wettttt) people has said that it normally stops the pain.
Third, you need to make sure that you are making the right decision,because you will NEVER get this back.
The pain, so you will know, hurts like hell. He is basically going to rip you apart, because since you will be tight he is going to have to make room for himself, and if this boy doesn't care for you or is inexperienced he will hurt you because he wouldn't know what to do or how to do it.
Lastly, just so you know if he is too rough with you or does the wrong thing you could hemorrhage, bleed, to death.
I suggest that you don't do it, but if you must make him wait for about 3 months and you will see where his heart lies.
2006-12-01 22:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts a lot. It does not feel good at all. It does not feel good for a while. Its painful. I dont recommend you do it yet. Wait until you're with someone that you really love and that you know loves you. then the pain wont bother you as much. And I know you're not in love because you're 12 yrs old. DONT DO IT!!!
2006-12-01 13:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 12 years old-Are you out of your mind!! You should wait a few more years before you even consider it. To answer your question, it all depends on the person, sometimes it hurts sometimes it don't
2006-12-01 13:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Reading that someone "barely 12" is going to have sex hurts.
2006-12-01 13:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by sakicfriend 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does for the girl anyway the boy loves it. There a part of the girl thats gonna be ripped apart but after that it doesnt hurt. From what i hear its a very sharp pain.
2006-12-01 13:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Todd D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do yourself a favor - stop and think...Do you respect yourself enough to not do this? It will hurt - more later on emotionally than now physically. This guy will be on to someone else in a week, bragging how he bagged you and ruining your reputation.
If this is a real post, I feel very, very sorry for you.
2006-12-01 13:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by piggly_wigglyus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 is way to young
2006-12-01 13:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't hurt me the first time!
You are too young to have sex now. Wait a few years.
2006-12-01 13:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋