My wife is getting calls from a woman claiming to be my lover, this person has great details about me and my schedual, I have narrowed it down to a few girls I know, But I have never cheated nor have the intentions of cheating on my wife.
Question is what could someone possibly get out of trying to ruin my marriage when I haven't sent out any signals to anyone that I am looking for something? I haven't even offended anyone that I can think of.
2006-12-01 05:15:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry to hear this is happening to you. If you can't think of enemys of yours, maybe start going through your wife's enemys. Some jealous girlfriend disguises her voice to hurt her?
2006-12-01 05:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by pathanChe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have been honest in what you have said, then i hope your wife does not play into this persons sick game. Most people do things like this to see the reaction they can get. Do not give it to them. You and your wife go about your business like you are happier now more than ever. Also, whom ever is doing this , is close to both of you. It could be someone who has a crush on you and wants your wife out of the way. You both hang in there and hang up, ignore any and all communications from this individual and they will get bored and find something or someone else to play games with. Good luck and DO NOT GIVE UP ! P.S . as i said it is someone you know. BE careful as to what you say to people and if you want to try and catch who it is, drop little line to those you are in contact with to see what comes back home to you.Then you may have an idea as to whom it is.
2006-12-01 13:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by shyone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, my, my! There could be as many answers for this as there are stars in the sky!
1.Someone is jealous of your wife, your relationship, of you..
2. Someone wants you for herself.
3. Did you get a promotion at work and she was overlooked?
4. Did your wife upset someone?
5. Someone is trying to make you perform terribly at work.
6. A person who is bored and simply doesn't like you.
7. Just a 'sick-o'.
Change your phone number. I know it is a hassle, but in doing that, you should find out in short order, if it is someone that is close to you, since you will be keeping track of who you give the new number out to. Good luck. Hopefully you have a good woman at home who knows you well enough to know that you would never do what you are accused of. Make some changes, like the phone number, and that will also give her additional confidence that you are trying to figure this out as well
2006-12-01 13:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nisey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happend to me and my boyfriend several times both male and females would spread awful rumors about both of us. And do you know why because we are very lovey dovey even after 4yrs togethre and it is not an act either. Alot people got sick of looking at us. His friends especially hated it because they were jealous of our relationship. I remember one day about 3 years ago me and my boyfriend were walking in a park and this lady stopped us and told us how beautiful we looked together. So basically there are alot of people that wish they had someone to love. Trust me my grandparents went through the same thing and they were married for over 50yrs and were truly soulmates. If I were you and the next time this women called i would snatch the phone from your wife and tell the woman off.
2006-12-01 17:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone doesn't want to see you happy. Make sure and tell your wife the truth and make her feel 100% trusting of you. You don't want this to ruin your marriage. Eventually the other woman will give up and leave you alone but you and your wife need to be strong and stick together.
Good luck!
2006-12-01 13:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people that enjoy making others unhappy. They play with the phone, call the phone company and complain. If you have a call block tell your wife everytime they call block that number. Best of Luck in your marriage
2006-12-01 13:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, if your telling the truth about not cheating and never giving any messages to other women, then all I can say is your wife may have an enemy( female one) that is trying to ruin her life, through you. Ask your wife if any women at work dislike her ect ect. I bet you may find that its some evil woman out there.
Take care and hope this helps
2006-12-01 13:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by six7foru 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes people do these things. Usually women - not always, but usually. When men stalk women it is usually because they hope they will somehow get them back or get them into a relationship. When women do it, it is usually revenge.
I have known people who are stalked by total strangers who honestly don't seem to have any reason to do so. I had a girlfriend (we were 18 then) who had been stalked by the same woman (who was about 35) for two years. She had no idea who she was or what she wanted - she never even spoke to her, but caught her in her apartment twice. No matter where she moved to or changed her locks, phone number this woman ALWAYS found a way in. I always wondered what happened to her.
2006-12-01 13:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you tell your wife to keep a recorder handy and record one of these conversations? then you'll know just who the culprit is. That is of course if the phone calls ARE actually occurring. maybe the old lady is up to some sh*it. We must consider every possibility here.
2006-12-01 13:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the other woman is secretly in love with you. By calling your wife and telling her all these things she feels you marriage will end and then she can have you all to herself. Find out who it is and put a stop to it soon. Good luck!
2006-12-01 13:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Michele 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women have Ideas that are twisted.
Maybe this woman likes you and is trying to cause problems with you and your wife so you might need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on,and she is hoping she would be the one you lean on.
she could now that maybe your wife is cheating on you and she is trying to hurt her like she is going to hurt you.
then maybe she finds this all a game and has no reason to it other than for her enjoyment,causing someone else to be as miserable as she is.
2006-12-01 13:22:27 · answer #11 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋