My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 18DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-12-01 05:01:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is bad news.Abusive charactor.Stay away from him!! If he contacts you again,,get an order of protection.And dont listen to the junk he tells you.
2006-12-01 05:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems such as you may desire to have positioned up stressful stress sickness. between the potential indicators of PTSD is a variety of emotional numbing and lack of ability to experience something. although, you will could desire to get a extra thorough assessment via a psychiatrist to make certain if this what the subject is. you assert you probably did no longer adventure any stressful activities yet then you certainly describe activities that could desire to be stressful to every person. you may desire to look for scientific care at a Veterans administration well-being middle. you assert which you do no longer experience guilt or remorseful approximately that could point out a character sickness unrelated to your attempt against yet you in addition to could say which you cry once you once you think of of a few thing undesirable happening to somebody. This seems to show which you're able to empathizing with others and doubtless you're merely suppressing your thoughts approximately those activities. . a qualified psychiatrist could have the potential that can assist you become attentive to your subject and cope with it.
2016-12-29 18:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document everything he's every said or done to you. Witnesses will be helpful, but not needed. Go to the police and get a restraining order. Then if he ever contacts you again he'll be arrested. This is harrasment, stalking and assult & battery. He will continue to do this, abusers always do. You need to stop him NOW.
2006-12-01 05:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by tabithap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there ..
A story out of "imaginations" ??
or out of a "movie" ??
or in "real life"..??
hard to believe anyway..
But you sound literate and wonder 'why' and 'what for' you are waiting with so many of the options around you..? sorry..but "hard to believe"...in this era...
1. contact nearest police station
2. get another mobile connection
3. if still crazy about him, call him for a round of
discussion across the table in the presence
of your intimate friends or relatives..and
clear up the misunderstandings..
4. otherwise, if you have guts, "catch the bull
by the horn" and give him good thrashing...!
best wishes...
2006-12-01 05:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by suresh k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but goto the police and tell them everything. u may think that might be embarrassing but the only thing that is embarassing is if you didn't. Otherwise hes going to keep coming back to haunt u (abuse u)
2006-12-01 05:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 3 options, 1: go to the police,
2: delete the txt BEFORE reading it.
or show your parents who will be able to deal with the situation for you. good luck.
2006-12-01 05:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number, if possible get a restraining order. Tell your parents, above all. Make sure if he sends you another of these messages, SAVE it. You could use it in court.
2006-12-01 05:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not bothering you now count your blessings perhaps he found somebody new. Just keep not answering, any action on your part will be interpreted as attention and keep things roling the wrong way
2006-12-01 05:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a link on stalking.....only two states in the country appear to have no anti-stalking law...please read this as it may save your life!http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/bwjp/stalking/stalking.html
2006-12-01 05:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by cookiesmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people all over the world that have REAL problems. You are just an idiot. That's not something that can be cured here.
2006-12-01 05:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋