we have two kids I dont know if I want to do that to my kids he cheated but says it wont happen I think they still are mess around
2006-12-01 04:54:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it will keep happening, almost always does. as for the kids they will get over it as long as he stays in their life as a father. you guys got together young, he is going through a what did i miss out on? faze
2006-12-01 05:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by jdmholdemslick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in a relationship is very important. Once trust is lost, it's hard to get back. There's always doubt hanging around.
Is your hubby doing/saying something that makes you suspect he's cheating again? Make sure that's the case. You may want to seek marriage counseling to make the marriage strong again. Also, get "Mars and Venus on a Date" by John Gray, author of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Go to your local library and pick it up on tape or CD. Listen to it with your husband and discuss the various aspects of what you hear. You'll enjoy it!
As a guy, I know that there are always temptations. That doesn't mean that your husband doesn't love you. There are many reasons why guy's eyes wander. I know that doesn't make it easier, but that's part of our (guy's) conditioning.
Definitely, understanding why men and women think differently will help both of you understand how to keep the marriage strong, exciting, and growing.
Good Luck!
2006-12-01 05:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Peter S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion and my own bitter experience once the trust has gone in a relationship then it is pretty much beyond repair.
I met met ex when i was 17 and was 18 we were together for nearly 20 years with 2 kids but it didn't stop him cheating on me.
You have to do what is best for you and the kids and if you dont trust your husband it is only gonna cause stress and arguments which the kids will pick up anyway
2006-12-01 05:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I have said this before and I will say it again
It is better to come from a broken home than to live in one.
You are not doing yourself an favors by living with a lousy cheating jerk.
Grow a back bone and try and live your life for yourself
Been there done that got the tee shirt.
2006-12-01 05:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about your self and not the kids bc if they are still mess around later is going get worst and if you can;t leave him it a different thing then mention your kids save your kids life and your going get child support to
2006-12-01 04:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest giving him one, and ONLY one, more chance. If he's cheated more than once boot him now. If not, get some counseling and try to fix things. If he ever does it again he goes.
2006-12-01 05:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, i imagine it really is a rip-off. If she legitimately loved you, she would not care even if you signed up for her website. She absolutely would not be utilising signing up for her website as a situation to flow out to dinner with you, or grant you with her cellular huge style or have sex with you. basically the actuality that she's doing it really is suspect.
2016-10-16 11:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He messed around on you once, shame on him. He messes around on you twice, shame on you. Move on for the sake of your sanity and for the future of the children.
2006-12-01 05:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he Will mess around again-they always say they wont.
2006-12-01 04:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by ann k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him to go to counseling. If he refuses, divorce him. NO hope.
2006-12-01 05:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋