tonight me and my bf tryed to have sex toghter but i couldn't get it up is this something that normaly happens or is it something thats wronge with me??
2006-12-01 04:32:19 · 31 answers · asked by poorlilemoboy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OMG:was this the first time that this happened to you?
Don.t you please worry about it.
Were you in the right mood to have sex?
Did you drink much alcohol that night?
Were you to tired to have sex?
And there are many more factors why a guy sometimes stays limp. .
Don't break your pretty little head over it,the more stress the less chance of getting it up again.
If however this is happening frequently,then it is time to ask yourself some questions like:am i still in love with or attracted to that guy.Maybe there is no feeling towards him.Or are there personal reasons maybe?
A Crush on someone else maybe.
All I try to say:there are 11Dreds of reasons why willy wont work:think about it:the results will be clear to yourself.
Then willy will respond to sexual stimuli again.
Clear your head and go to bed.
Success and again:do not make a big issue of it.
If you need to talk?
Feel free to IM me ,ok?
Greetings Rob.
And I am not coming on to you,if you might think so.
Rob.
2006-12-01 04:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all men at some point, gay or straight. Men have hormones just like women do (different kinds though). And if your body didn't get the mix right, deflation city! Sorry. But the more you worry about it, and the more you obsess over it, the worse it will get. Just reassure yourself that there is nothing wrong, and try not to think about it. Don't worry sweetie, it's not permanent!!!!
2006-12-01 04:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wronge with you.
Personally this only happens to me after I have had too much sex that day. I mean after 5 times there is no waking the little man. But if too much sex is not the answer then maybe it is just not attracted to your partner anymore.
2006-12-01 05:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you at all. There can be many reasons why you can't get it up ranging from being tired, to not being aroused at that certain point to being in a relationship for a very longtime and you have perhaps lost the physical lust for your partner. It's perfectly natural and your partner should understand and respect this. : )
2006-12-01 06:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by scallydandan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 14:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I happens to all of us at one time or another for many reasons , medicaly ,drugs,booze,stress,etc....
Don't worry try agian someother time it just might work and if it does not ,well there many more things to do with your bf than just sex , try cuddling together for a start you never know what that might lead too :)
2006-12-01 04:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by nygayart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worrying about anything and not letting go it could be the reason why you are having problems. Just dont think too much, be in the moment! Dont worry there is nothing wrong with you!
2006-12-01 04:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by alana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were likely just tired. If you've had a hectic week, then maybe you just couldn't get in the mood. Don't let it bother you. You'll make up for it soon.
2006-12-01 04:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by SB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be medical, but sometimes there's something else, like being tired. I wouldn't let one time freak you out. If it keeps happening, I'd see a doctor though.
2006-12-01 04:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Gothic Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the first time it has happened I'd suggest it was a one off. All i will suggest is don't let it be on your mind the next time it will just make you nervous and take you off your stride.
2006-12-01 10:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋