standing my ground?

Question

im a old school kid now, and im too weak! I'm not very muscular nor tall but (for fun most the times) ppl give me a right jab in the arm, do i retaliate physically, mentally?
Also, when people 'start on' me for no reason or call me somethin or do something as they walk past me.... what do i do because it really annoys me and i feel like they own me.

NOTE: this is not bullying... quite a few kids get it so i won't in any way get older ppl involved.

Answer 1

I'm sorry...this is bullying. You need to talk to your counselor or vice-principal about this. Your school days should be happy times of learning not of dodging being bruised. It sounds as though this is a school wide problem and needs to be addressed IMMEDIATELY. An anonymous note to the school board may also help.

Answer 2

You should have nicked it right in the butt.......the very first time. But since you didnt, now they all assume you are gona just take it with your tail between your legs!! When I say the following, I'm not telling you to go start fights, K....
No matter what size you are, the next time this happends, reach down, grab those things you call nuts, and return that jab like they never felt before! They will not be expecting it, so giv'em a good one! If it leads to more, you gotta stand your ground....even if you dont end up on top, he will realize you are not gona take his sh@t anymore. Really put that in your head...YOUR NOT GONA TAKE ANYONE'S SH#T ANYMORE!! Otherwise, it will go on and on......
Good luck....

Answer 3

If a person jabs you in the arm do it back but harder. stand up for yourself. if they know that they can get away with it they will keep doing it. and whenever people start on you don't take offense about it speak up. and say whatever. hold your head up high. what your doing now doesn't show you that your weak.you are more grown up then them. DON'T LET ANYONE PUSH YOU AROUND. AND PLUS YOU ARE BETTER THAN THEM. GOOD LUCK. STAND PROUD.

Answer 4

In your case you have to began by looking at the person you see in the mirror. People treat you that why only because you believe that you are what they say you are. You have to have confidence in yourself. What you be live about yourself on the inside shows on the outside. You my not be a lot of things, to other people and that is okay. However you have to stop saying negative things about yourself and focusing on the negative things that other people say about you. In order to get respect form other people you must first have respect for yourself. Once you began to have that for yourself it will began to show to everyone else. Just remember this positive thinking, bring forward positive things and negative thinking bring forward negative things. Just decide which one you want to be surrounded by.

Answer 5

personally if it was me even if i wasnt big i would do somehting no one would expect..... they think they can do that becasue they know you wont do anything... i dont know how much of a fighter you are but act like you know what you are doing.... most likely they wont fight you.... but the next time they do it and i would use cuss words to make the pount stronger,,, i would say hey what the f*ck is you problem dude, i never do **** to you and you continue tjhis bullshit like i am your little *****..... if you dont like me lets settle this right now.... if you dont want to, you are going to leave me the f*ck alone from now one.... raise your voice when you say it.... thats if you are not playing around...... if you are and it hurts punch them back and be like that f'in hurt... use your knuckles so it has more of a sting and hurt,,,,

Answer 6

deal it right back, get a little chip on your shoulder, cock an attitude and stand up for the other kids that it happens to

Answer 7

i realite. use wieths faithfully, pray, drink milk 24/7 and have soda once a month or less.