She drove him nuts with her hateful heart and an unforgiving spirit.
2006-12-01 04:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by Joanna V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Same thing happened to my brother. But God would not want you hurting her back in any form. God will take care of her. you reemmber your brother and go on with your life. and leave her to GOD.
2006-12-01 13:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yo believe that God loves YOU with all HIS might and that he is always there for you when you have been less than perfect? Do you believe that God welcomes you in his arms every time you transgress? If so, do you think you can find it in your heart to open your arms and at least contemplate that you can be good and offer your love to your sister in law?
I'm sorry about the loss of your brother. He was obviously troubled but God will care for him now. You blame your sister in law for the problems, but she DID NOT kill him. He did that by himself. I think God would have you stop blaming your sister-in-law for his death and offer her love with open arms, yes a very difficult thing to do. You'll be better for it. "Demons," if you would, already confused your brother. Don't let them confuse you too! Best of luck!
2006-12-01 05:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you mourn your brother, however, why would you want revenge on this woman. The woman he was married to didn't have the power to solely help your brother kill himself, there were other circumstances that were involved. Let God deal with her when the time comes. Don't do anything to harm her, it wont bring your brother back. I am sorry for your loss, please find some support network to help you during your time of loss and need.
2006-12-01 04:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God says she's tried of everyone using her to justify their actions.
She gave humanity freedom of will.
Your brother used his freedom to kill himself.
He could of as easily chose to leave her, decide to start a new life, go seek help, have a cheese burger or forget the whole thing.
Everyone is responsible for their own actions so stop blaming each other.
Now go live your life and try to be happy.
2006-12-01 04:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking what God would have you to do then your answer is "FORGIVE" now that's in the bible. Now MAN may say differently, but GOD is GOD and his law never changes no matter what happened. HIS WORD says "LOVE YOUR ENEMIES AND PRAY FOR THEM". That's a terrible situation, but you asked the question and so this is the answer. IT's a tough seed to swallow, but it's TRUTH!
2006-12-01 04:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jontue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother made the decision himself. If he thought about it he should have come to you and the rest of the family for help. Sorry but this simple remark you've alleged in no way explains your rationale.
Maybe it would of been better if prior to killing himself he offed her first.
2006-12-01 04:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but your brother killed himself not her everyone makes choices he had other options but for whatever his reasoning he took his own life you need counselling urgently and stay away from this person otherwise you may do something you WILL regret
2006-12-01 05:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And so she is oh-so-all-powerful? You are giving her the power, all control, to believe that she is responsible for your brother's death.
Adults have the power to make their own decisions. He CHOSE to end his life, she didn't make him do it. He could have chosen a different path.
I'm sorry for your loss, but you must realize that many, many people have been in the same situation and chosen a different path.
2006-12-01 04:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother decided to make a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'm sure she feels bad, but God wouldn't want you to do anything to harm her.
2006-12-01 04:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God would never go for revenge.
Let her be. Guilt is the worst punishment.
2006-12-01 04:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋