To all the negative people.......?

Question

Stop downing young women about their choices. People are here to get answers for their questions not to be disrespected by other people. I know there's alot of "Am I pregnant" questions on here and it bothers me too but if you're like me you'll tell them one or two things: go to the doctor or get an hpt. I'm the proud parent of a 17 month old baby girl and I'm expecting my second in May and I love every second of it. Some women don't get to experience that joy so for some people to be negative towards women who do its sad. Everybody has a right to ask whatever they want so respect that.

And yes I know it's not a question before anybody says anything so no smart comments. Congrats and good luck to all those who are expecting!!!!

It wasn't mean to say anything negative it was meant to just tell the negative people that I'm tired of reading their crazy responses. We don't know the ages of the people on here so I just think that some people are walking on a fine line when they answer questions with a smart remark.

For your information EVA I work in a law firm as a paralegal. I continue to go to college and I'm engaged to my children's father. So ask me about myself before you judge me. You're what wrong with half the people on here. Secondly I'm not telling anyone how to respond to any question. I'm just saying uplift people don't down people. Whatever happened to if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it?

Answer 1

Just my opinion, but at this time of year it just proves that the true meaning of Christmas is gone, think of it, people still being so negative to be rude to pregnant women this time of year! What happened to peace on Earth and Good will towards men? I must agree the "Am I pregnant" questions get old, but I think they are scared and just need people to talk to, and for a lot of them it's easier to talk to a stranger then a friend. I wish they had this site when I was pregnant, I didn't have anyone to really help me, so....Merry CHRISTmas to you all and congratulations to all expecting and new mothers!

Answer 2

I get what you are saying. However the spelling and grammar of most of those "Am I Prego" questions usually point to a young girl. In which case most people are sick and tired of children who are ill informed having sex, and having children who in turn get neglected, abused, or passed off into the system.
They all seem to be willing to lie on their backs, but unwilling to take proper care of their offspring. They are absolutely against abortion, yet they can't afford to raise the kid.
Young girls aren't getting the message that sex is an adult experience, with adult consequences. It is not entirely the girls fault, as more should be done in schools to teach these kids responsibility (because the parents obviously aren't doing their job). Perhaps to hear the harsh realities from people who have "been there, done that" will shock them back into reality.
More often than not the woman hasn't made a choice at all. They just lie down with a guy so he'll like them. Then he takes off and they are left with a child they can't properly raise...
In my opinion slogans such as "keep it in your pants" and "keep your knees together" should be written on the walls of high schools, because they aren't getting the message any other way.

Answer 3

i think so many ppl are starting to be negative because they are shocked..*i know am* at how many ppl dont know what goes on with life. i see so many *am i pregnant* questions and it drives me nuts. i wonder all the time. doesnt anyone read anymore? you have the internet, do some research. its unbelieveable. everyone knows what they're doing and how to handle things and when something goes wrong you wanna ask a bunch of strangers for answers instead of talking to your family thats right there?! im not being negative, but i do tell these girls to suck it up, everyone is raised to be wimps these days. when i was 13 i was educated. my mom did her job and so did my schools. i knew what happened when you got pregnant. im 24 and i just got pregnant, im not freaking out on how to tell my bf or anyone.

so stop acting like everyone has to be so polite about everything to everyone. Life is not polite and these 12 year old thats are having sex need to learn that. and besides when you ask a bunch of strangers online for answers, more then half the time you're gonna get a smartass from time to time. so expect it. quit crying about it and move on.

Answer 4

I think people get so frustrated at young kids on here getting pregnant and getting abortions or just their lack of education about sex and std's etc. I think people just do not understand how people continue to make the same mistakes over and over when there is so much knowledge out there and no excuse for it. I know it frustrates me as well. But you are right, people should try and give advice with out being mean and judgmental, I know I am guilty of it, however sometimes I think these kids need it.

Answer 5

I have no desire to pass judgement on anyone. What DOES bother me is the seeming ignorance of some concerning birth control and the resulting unplanned pregnancy. That is not only something affecting a woman (whether young or old), but a child who has no say in the matter.

Answer 6

Congrats to you for being happy... but i'm still gonna dog on the "I had sex could I be pregnant?" people. There is a lot of good questions and answers here... but also alot of stupid questions regarding things that if you dont know how you can get PG (surprisingly not by his finger) you shouldn't even be considering being sexually active - Thats MY point

Answer 7

i believe that ytou are right, and no one should be downing women because they are youn for example i' very young as well and already pregnant, maybe what bothers you is that some people try to open their eyes because they already been trough that, and yes you are absolutely right, the question of am i preganant is kind of anoying everyone who suspects they arepreganat should just go and spend 10 dollars or go to the doctor.

Answer 8

I think you are exactly right. and I respect you for sticking up for people that are young and pregnant. I happen to be one myself. and for anyone who wants to smart ***. I am engaged to my baby's daddy and taxpayers aren't paying for my baby, my fiance and I are. Not every young pregnant girl receives welfare and are irresponsible and unintelligent. Thank you so much, the world needs more people like you to make their day, and stick up for them. Not to be a rude stuck up smart *** that judges people all the time. YOU GO GIRL!

Answer 9

i hear that!!!!! its a little old to hear all this disrespect. i feel that babies are a happy event for most of us also. i had four dchildren and i have thirteen grand children and im as happy as a lark!!!!! just keep being positive, dont let the negative reactions get ya down. that is misery seeking company. lol and im not into misery. lolllll. merry christmas.

Answer 10

I agree with you. If you don't like a question or it's content, just don't answer it. There are plenty of other questions that can be answered. Congrats to you!!!