Their ages are 14, 11 and 9!
2006-12-01 03:16:59 · 8 answers · asked by TRE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be honest with them sit them all down and tell them how happy this person makes you but tell them that your love for them will never changes all though other things will be changeing
2006-12-01 03:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm now 32 but my mother was married 5!!! times while I still lived at home. The best way she told my sisters and myself was during a family meeting. Just casual at home, no big build up. We knew her boyfriend and liked him. She was upfront and honest about the previos marriage(s) problems and what she thought would be different.
She told us obout various marriages in different ways, but the low key announcement where we could ask questions was the best!
Good luck!!!
And if the kids balk, let them ask you as many questions as they need to until they understand your feelings and hopes!
2006-12-01 03:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by jettyspagetti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit them down at the dinner table and tell them that your getting remarried.
2006-12-01 04:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Due in June 2009! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids I'm getting married to a man that love me and he wants me to become his wife.Then you can find out how they feel about it, I know if i was your kid i would be very happy for you.
2006-12-01 03:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by One Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD'NT U LET UR KIDS KNOW BEFORE U GOT MARRIED I'M PRETTY SURE THEY WILL BE CONFUSED!!
THAT WAS SELFISH U SHOULD OF TOLD THEM SO THEY COULD OF BEEN THERE FOR U TO SUPPORT U!!!!
NOW U HAVE LOST THIER TRUST!!!
2006-12-01 03:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down and say, 'Kids? I'm getting married."
2006-12-01 03:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Im getting marriered and deal with it. If your kids dont like it tell them to go to hell
2006-12-01 03:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by archeryguy10 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont tell them at all, sooner or later they will figure it out on thier own.
2006-12-01 03:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋