my mother was telling me that this one time back in her country, this married man was having an affair with his secretary and when he broke it off, she kidnapped his son, tortured and killed him. the mistress kept on sending him pieces of the child [well at that time they didnt know it was her] and the cops finally found her out and she's in jail...meanwhile he had told the wife that the woman was his mistress...they burried the child and till this day the wife remained with him saying that it was his fault...what do you tihnk of this? Personally i couldnt beleive that she stayed with him! it wasnt his fault my ***! this happened cause of him! what do u tihnk? and what would u have done?
2006-12-01 03:14:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i totally blame the husband because if it wasnt for his affair the kid would be alive
2006-12-01 03:23:53 · update #1
sorry "it wasnt his fault"
2006-12-01 03:32:09 · update #2
wouldn't have stayed with him - that's definite!
2006-12-01 03:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%--it was the husband's fault! If he could have kept his "little buddy" in his pants where it belonged like a decent human being (it really isn't too much to ask!) then this innocent child would still be alive.
If I was the wife, I would have stayed with the husband after this, too--for the express purpose of making his life a living h***. If I divorced him, he'd be able to marry again, concieve another child for another vindictive mistress to muder or maybe just live the "bachelor life" that so many men crave. No, I wouldn't reward him with a divorce. I'd spend the rest of my life punishing him.
2006-12-01 11:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with the man that caused my child dead for nothing in this world. He did not kill the child but is promiscuous affair did. The mistress is a sick person because you should not take it out on an innocent child just because you ding get your way in life. And she probably knew the he was a marry man and if she did not knew more fault to him. Personally I think that he should go to jail along whit her.
2006-12-01 11:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Spanish Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have no idea why the wife stays with him if he cheated on him, but the child has been killed by the mistress, and he definitely didn't intend to get his child killed, so I think it's wrong to blame him for that. But his wife should leave him, instead of going on blaming him, that is no solution for her, she's getting hurt every time she looks at her husband, otherwise she wouldn't say it's his fold all the time.
2006-12-01 11:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by lieselot h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not have stayed with this guy. As a mother, I would feel like it was his fault because he should've never cheated and the child would still be alive.
2006-12-01 11:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can blame the guy for having an affair, he is a b@st@rd for doing that to his wife. But he must never be held responsible for the death of his son, I can assure you he never meant any harm to come to his boy. My hatred would go completely to the murdering sadistic ***** that commited the crime. I would not rest till I had my revenge on her.
2006-12-01 11:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a sec...you said 'they burried the child and till this day the wife remained with him saying that it was his fault.'
You meant to write that she said it WASN'T his fault, right?
Aside from the minor typo (FIX IT) It really wasn't his fault, but I would NEVER have been able to stay with the dude...
2006-12-01 11:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by iguana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what would I have done if I was the Child? The husband? The Wife? The Mistress? What are you asking about?
2006-12-01 11:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Drew P 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i could never stay with a man who betrays me. and no matter how much it hurts to end the relationship it is the only way for me because there is not trust.
so i don't know what's going on in this lady's head, but after all this she must be completely nuts to stay with that guy.
i couldn't do it.
2006-12-01 11:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kerstin D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would NOT stay with him!! once a cheater always a cheater... the first time someone cheats on my they're gone... and it kind of is his fault what happened to the child- i have no sympathy for cheaters.
2006-12-01 11:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe back in her country and back in the day divorce was unheard of. In most places it is. Maybe by her saying it wasn't his fault it was her way of justifying being stuck with this man.
2006-12-01 11:17:10 · answer #11 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋