Never have sex unless i make the first move....she never refuses, but damn i would like to be jumped on every once and awhile
2006-12-01 02:34:12 · 24 answers · asked by Raw Dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i've told her, she says she gets shy.....that i sexually intimidate her
2006-12-01 02:38:22 · update #1
My husband had the same issue with me when we were first married. I had been raised to not suggest sex because it was "unfeminine". But he gently talked to me about it, that he wouldn't lose respect for me if I were a little more aggressive about suggesting sex, and he told me about his needs and I was able to talk with him about mine as a result. We have a spectacular sex life now because we were respectful about the way we talked. Now that I know he wants to me to initiate more often, I can do that without embarrassment because I know it is OK with him that I do. He won't be thinking I am bad or something, like how I had been raised. I hope this helps.
2006-12-01 02:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by MDG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let her know how you feel and tell her to loosin up a little be naughty tell her it's a big turn on for you try more thing's she's probly shy you might want to try to give her a little more time!
Good Luck with you sex life!
If it doesn't work out give me a email I'de love to be naughty!
2006-12-01 02:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dude, I know exactly what to do in your case.
You want her to want you before you want her, Right?
For this solution you would have to act first, again.
when you are in bed with her or when you plan to be intimate
start off by touching her legs and running your lips around her neck, if you see her liking it, then start taking her clothes off, but before you take her undies off, just stop, and sit down right beside her, she will tear your clothes off once she sees that you want her but will not do the next move. She's so horny by then that she will do unimaginable sex. I tell you from experience!
2006-12-01 02:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she to shy to jump you and your tired of being the initiator
have some sex fun together a game or take turns reading something erotic together try to discover what turns her on
2006-12-01 03:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by benbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much it bothers you. Since you have a mind of your own I will offer this suggestion based on my experience. If it does bother you a lot then TALK TO HER about it and dont put it off. Good luck.
2006-12-01 02:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by ................................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.. Maybe she has never been the one to make the first move and she does not even think about it.
2006-12-01 02:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by kdbnsc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what to say. Sex in my world is initiated 50/50 sometimes its I who want it. Sometimes it is my husband. Our secret we just find eachother so irresistable.
2006-12-01 02:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question my ex was like that. I had to get out I always wondered what was wrong with me. Now I know it was not me at all.
2016-05-23 07:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the normal feminine behaviour and you have to accept it but you can always talk with her about what you like and be patient you will definately get what you want.
2006-12-01 02:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pankaj K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's this? " honey You know how you like love and affection and need to feel desired? Well so do I. Its your turn for a little input here."
2006-12-01 02:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋