2006-12-01 02:28:42 · 20 answers · asked by joy emz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, you are committing a felony. Second, what made you think this would be the place for you to get any sympathetic answers? If you want to come into our country, do what other law abiding wanna be citizens do, go through the right channels and wait their turn. What gives you the right to use someone for your own gain. I don't have a problem with immigrants, that is how our country was founded, but what you are doing violates the fundamental laws of our country. How can you say you want a green card and you can't even follow our laws?!?!?!? We have enough people breaking laws on a daily basis who are citizens, we definitely do not need another countries issues!!! Take your A** home.
2006-12-01 23:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by creole woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure what sort of response you want you definately wont get a nice one from me......
I think your a using BI#CH and you should just go back to where you came from.
citizenship isn't worth crushing someones feelings like that, you will ruin him for the women that really will love him and WANT to be his wife......
You should tell him about the green card it's the least you owe him. I didn't think people could still be so callice and cold hearted still your rotten rite through to the core of your being and soul you don't need him you just want to use him........
you know what everyone thinks about women like you???
I have 6 housemates who are males and they are all calling you a FUC#ING SL#T right now go home!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 10:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ibanez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say it's not fair to use him, but at the same time, if you have a life here better than the one you left in your country, I would tough it out until you were a citizen. You may even have to stay a little longer so you don't raise any red flags by divorcing him the second you get citizenship. While you are married to him, try to make the best of it, treat him as if yo do love him. Who knows, maybe you'll start to love him and everyone will come out of this happy.
2006-12-01 10:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So you married the guy to get a green card. You think he MIGHT realize that? You better go back home. It's not nice to use someone for your own gain.
2006-12-01 10:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is it that you just don't love him? Or are there other problems you are not mentioning here? Emotional sustenance you can get from lots of sources--your children (if you have them; if not, please don't have any with this man), your friends, your faith, volunteer or paid work activities, anything. However, I also know that it is not uncommon for abusers to target vulnerable women like yourself, since they figure you don't have many weapons to fight back. That is entirely different. If that is the case, try to seek out any services for battered women or immigrant women, and get help!
2006-12-01 10:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by silverside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope to got he's not making you sleep with him, and, are you aware that you've just incriminated you both on the internet? start packing and tell him to get a very good lawyer. since 9/11 the f.b.i. traces messages just like this hoping to find illegals to deport. you could have been here 25 years, if they find out you can still be deported. lots of luck, but don't post anymore messages about this. talk to a lawyer. he cannot divulge anything you talk about. much luck and a prayer for both of you.
2006-12-01 10:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should come live with me and you can still get your green card send me a picture first
2006-12-01 10:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by unnoneuser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God. I almost married a guy 20+ years ago so that he could get a green card. Thank God we broke up. From what I understand, you don't marry somebody to get a green card because you love them. So just deal with it.
2006-12-01 10:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Does he love you?
What you are doing could damage his life and his prespective on marriage, women and love in general. Come clean and you won't feel guilty about it for the rest of your life.
Also, if you were meant to be in this country it will happen, but not by hurting someone.
2006-12-01 10:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I never believed in using someone to get what u want. Thats cruel not to mention a sin. U should try to make it work now that u are married.
2006-12-01 10:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweetre2 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋