When i told him what i saw, he told me that it was because once we talked about having a threesome so he was looking for a girl.
But this conversation happened a year ago and we were laughing about it! He is really taking me for a stupid one. Im lost don't know what to do...
2006-12-01 02:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by Liv1678 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either live with it or leave him. he will not change. I know, my husband is the same thing.
2006-12-01 02:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be cheating on you already, or at least wanting to. He just made up the whole thing about a threesome to cover his butt. He wants to have sex with other girls and i would kick his A$$ to the curb, unless you find out for some reason he IS telling the truth. But that is all on you, hon. Good luck and i am sorry your husband is such a loser!
2006-12-01 11:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha......"looking for a girl for a threesome". thats a good one. I'm going to have to remember it. i'd never use it because I know it'd never fly.
I have an idea....why not you and I correspond? I'll send you all sorts of sexy and downright steamy e-mails. When he finds out you can say "Yeah...i want a threesome but it has to be with another guy....that's why I'm writing to him (me)". Think that'd sit well with him?
Probably not huh? In any case....he's jerkin' you off sweetheart. The simple cure for this is the next time he gets in bed with you and wants to get alittle of your sugar....reach down and gently...very gently run your hand down across his thigh and sweep under and lighty hold both of his testicles in your hand. Then in one quick and fluid motion you squeeze hard and twist your wrist in a clockwise motion and then rapidly to counter-clockwise then back again. Repeat this until he tells you that he has given up all ideas of a threesome and will behave like a husband should.
I have patented this process with the government and have yet to receive royalties however I can assure you it works without fail.
Good luck my dear.
2006-12-01 11:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you felt so uncomfortable about the subject, then you should not talked with him about a threesome. If you are still considering that, then what he is doing might not be a bad thing. But you seem totally uncomfortable with the idea. Your husband is using you to get more sexual satisfaction, and one day you will find out and be totally sick of it. So, in the end it is your life and you should not kid yourself in thinking of your husband the way he is NOT.
2006-12-01 10:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all but stupid. I don't know your answer to that. That is something you really need to think about, and talk to him about or it will never be solved this isn't something that is going to be solved over night. If it doesn't change you need to do something before it destroys you. Either he can have them or you. Don't let it go on or you will never trust him. Trust is something that is so hard to get back. If this has been going on for a year, he has a problem, but making you have a problem too. Good Luck.
2006-12-01 10:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is looking for a threesome, a good chance that he is interested in having sex with other girls. If he kept the account from you he is probably sneaking behind your back looking for someone else.
2006-12-01 10:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by hank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u 2 talked about a threesome believe me he was very excited and his mind flew away.its like u talked about it laughed and he thought thats ok with it.he made a mistake hiding this from u but u should talk with him more serious.tell him that when u 2 talked about that it was a joke.
i had a hard time with my husband watching women on porn sites.there was a period in my life when i felt bad as a woman bcs of that,but we talked about it and he explained me that those women he sees are just sex objects.men have the ability to like a woman just bcs she has nice boobs or a nice ***...they dont care if she is a good mom or a lawyer when she is on a porn site:)men have fantasies as well as women just that they think more about it.just bcs my husband visited porn sites that doesnt means he doesnt loves me.he told me that i am the only woman he wants to have sex in real life and those are just fantesies.i am not saying that i feel good about it but at least i know those women mean nothing for him .I AM THE ONLY WOMAN IN HIS LIFE.and i bet u are the only woman for ur husband.ask other men about this and u will see that most of them feel the same.
2006-12-01 11:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband has this secret side of himself. Maybe he fantasizes having a threesome or whatever. What I can suggest is you talk it over with your husband. Explain it to him that this makes you uncomfortable. Try to see his reaction. Maybe you can compromise and come up with a solution. In the web people can pretend whatever their fantasy is.....
2006-12-01 10:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Terry Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a conversation about a 3 some in the past, don't blame him, blame YOU. I LOVE WHEN WOMEN COMMITT TO THINGS, THEN IF THEY ACTUALLY HAPPEN, THEY GET ALL BENT OUT OF SHAPE. WELL TOO BAD. IT'S COMMON FOR MEN TO LOOK AT OTHER CHICKS.
WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT THE 3 SOME, YOU MUST HAVE BEEN INTERESTED. COME ON DON'T SOUND LIKE LAURA INGELS HUH?
2006-12-01 10:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i dont believe him, i think he is just greedy, you should confront him, tell him you want the truth or its over, just an empty threat but it should do the trick, or add some of the girls and have a chat to them, see what they are saying?
2006-12-01 10:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by mutated_demon_monkey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue to talk to him about it. Communication and honesty is the key. If you are concerned about all of his "contacts" let him know how you feel. Sometimes we get on a one track mind and have to be pulled aside and talked to.
2006-12-01 10:51:15 · answer #11 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋