he was ok with it but he didnt return the feelings. if i stay bestfriends with him, i wont move on because ill always have hope that he'll love me back one day. should i end the friendship or stay friends with him?
2006-12-01 02:22:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should move on coz he didnt returned the feelings .hopefully he will realized what he had and come back
2006-12-01 02:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's a hard one. First, it takes men longer to fall in love so I would give it time. If after a few months, he does not respond in kind. I would just plain ask him how he feels and what he is looking for in this relationship. If at that time he says he really likes you, tell him you think , since you need more form him, that you try it apart for 6 months and if in that time he discovers that he does miss you and love you , well you can get back together. No calls or anything for 6 months. You may yourself find that he was not the right one. I know it will be hard but it does give one perspective.
2006-12-01 10:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lorinyct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this over and over again here.....it's the rejection that is hurting you. It's not you I am sure you are a wonderful person, just not for him. His loss! I think that you should casually take a break from him so you can decide what is causing you to love him but good friends if he is that don't lose sight of that. Love is a mutual thing and I do not know why people waste so much energy on Loving something they do not get the same wonderful treatment back or get loved the same way that they themselfs Love. Self destructive to me but that's just my opinion. Good Luck!
2006-12-01 10:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being friends with him if you think that you are going to spend the rest of your days waiting for him to return your feelings. That might not ever happen and you would be wasting you time. Also, you would get your heart broken when he finds someone he does love that way.
2006-12-01 10:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by g's girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that same thing with my best friend :) I told him how I felt about him, and he didn't share the same feelings.....
We stayed friends, the weirdness went away after a while....
That was 6 years ago and we are still good friends!!!!
Just let it slide, and know that there is someone better out there for you..... but don't pressure your friend... that will drive him away, you want to be friends with him! Just make sure that you act normal around him, like nothing happened....
It will be okay!
2006-12-01 10:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. ruspee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to keep whatever distance he sets.
A couple of years before I met why wife I fell in love with a girl who was a great friend. I eventually told her and it changed everything. She never reciprocated - she wasn't mean, but she didn't love me.
I continued to hang around her a lot and it made her uncomfortable. I was a pain to her and I always felt bad for doing it. Eventually I got over it, and each of us found and married someone else. We still talk occasionally and my wife knows what happened, but our friendship was damaged forever.
2006-12-01 10:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the friendship, if he ever decides he wants to be ina relationship with you it will only be because you've grown on him and you never want that, you want that immediate chemistry and attraction towards you. He doesn't feel that flame when it comes to you and so don't hurt yourself by hanging around and waiting for a change of heart.
2006-12-01 10:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating others as soon as possible, stalkers are not attractive. Also.... if you hang around, it will only hurt to see other people dating your friend. You may catch yourself trying to hurt your friends other relationships.... It is a dead end with more pain. Move on!
2006-12-03 23:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Watcher6679 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not end the friendship. Maybe he is not ready or he may be scared to say the words to you. You shall continue to to tell him that you love him and ect.... and eventually he will come out t if his shell.
2006-12-01 10:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' Foot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...stay friends,of course you'll hope (needlessly i'd say) but you have nothing to lose...somebody else will come your way,when you least expect it..Maybe he didn't return the feelings because he doesn't want to lose you as a friend!!!Who knows...Ask him.Be cool! ;)
2006-12-01 10:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋