2006-12-01 02:19:04 · 12 answers · asked by peanut44 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Or, maybe a partner for life? My husband and I were together for 15 years and he was pretty much a roomate. Of course, we both were employed but he took care of everything around the house...the yard, the vehicles, the bills...all that. It was nothing I wouldn't for him. But he always called me out of my name. He did that for at least 13 years. But I decided that I would do whatever it takes to make it work. He always kept pictures of his ex-wife in the house and always talked to her on the phone every week or so. But he says he hates her. I don't understand that one. But I put up with it. If you hate someone, why communicate with her? He doesn't go anywhere. He comes home from work the same time everyday. He has never physically abused me, although he has mentally abused me. My mood is up and down almost like a rollercoaster. He told me one day in anger he wanted me to leave. He said "I don't know why I married u." But I have forgiven him in my heart.
2006-12-01 03:00:20 · update #1
He' got a secret. What do you think? Please help!
2006-12-01 03:17:32 · update #2
Understanding the concept "soulmate". Yahooooo... things really are made in heaven!
Yes, every single individual living on Mother Earth has a partner in hiding... a soul mate that would practically match hundred percent with one! This has been a saying by people falling in love now and always. But this is also the truth. God made the destiny of mankind like that.
Suppose I am a boy born at number 43.045230345 (on the scale of hundred) amongst the billions of people living on Mother Earth. Then in all eventualities there would be many girls born at number 43. Whether I get to love and marry the girl of my choice is purely dependent upon my destiny which is a controversial subject (one can always take control of ones destiny if we truly desire so)!
Now, how do I find all girls at number 43...? This is where we falter... the numbering system of God being hidden from mankind... it becomes difficult to find the soul mate matching our choice and results in divorces, the divorce rate being abnormally high.
In the present materialistic trend one weighs the other from his finances, the bank balance, looks and alike. In the domain of God if we really want to search our soul mate... it may be hidden in the ugly frog for God may have cast a spell on it and unable to recognize one we marry the wrong girl! This is the irony of fate of most people the world over.
Those who can hear the sweet small voice coming from their heart... the voice of our soul (atman in Hinduism) such truthful people sometimes are able to recognize their soul mate. And it is then we learn that a Mira Bai has been born. Mira Bai was a faithful follower and lover of Lord Krishna even though Lord Krishna was married and had a wife.
The love of Mira Bai for Lord Krishna was unparalleled. It was much above the physical inhibitions expressed nowadays. For Mira Bai... sex had no role to play in the love she had for Lord Krishna. This is what pure love is all about! More on soulmate here- http://www.godrealized.org/truce_with_my_inner_self.html
2006-12-06 21:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term soulmate is over used. What makes a partner for life is keeping the one you fell in love with and enduring through the rough spots, the bad days. When all is said, the love will have been tested through the fire. What will be left is a love tht is unbreakable and terminology will be useless to you. In your heart you will know that your love endured all and withstood the bad and treasured the good. The history you share will be a sweet story for you to look back on and a legacy for your kids. We're Going on 30 years of marriage now and my "soul mate" and I endured each other's bad days, days of wanting to flush the other down the toilet as well as savored the wonderful days. I love him more today than I did 30 years ago.
2006-12-01 10:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Catie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think there is no such thing as one and true soul-mate. Rather a ease in which two people fit. Like salt and pepper. Do you feel like you have know him or her for years? do you have the same beliefs? do you enjoy the same things? Do you get that tingle when you remember the last time you where together. Have you seen them mad. Can you tell then "go to hell" and still have them know you love them. These are some
2006-12-01 10:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lorinyct 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me tell you something a man told me a long time ago. "When u find the right one you will know it" For the longest through very bad times I thought this was just a fairy tale. 9 months later a miracle happened in my life. It was my wife. This woman loves me more than life itself. Never give up.Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-01 10:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by better_than_your_man2004 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know you found your soulmate when you cannot stand to be away from that person for more than one day and when you are away from the they are always on your mind. Even if they do something to make you mad, you still are with them.
2006-12-01 10:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you have an argument and you tell him to leave and he stands there and won't move, while he tells you he's not leaving you because he loves you.
2006-12-01 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no soulmates, don't get sucked into that BS. It's all depends on the dynamics of the relationship and how you can "deal" with relationships, some are better than others.
2006-12-01 10:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
whatever you make them.
there is no right or wrong match, it is about connecting, perpetuating the connection and staying connected.
2006-12-01 10:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
someone who understands you ,accets you ,will treat u with respect and you can share alot with
2006-12-01 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a woman who cooks, cleans, washes my clothes, does dishes, watches football, goes grocery shopping, changes lightbulbs, cleans my fishtank, dresses up lol.
As long as she doesn't change the car oil it's cool.
Actually I married a girl like this would you believe it?? Im not kidding.
2006-12-01 10:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋