People make fun of the way i am what should i do?

Question

all my life i have been teased because of the way i am. i listen to hard core music and dress like a goth and have alot of goth friends. my family says that the only reason someone would pick on me is because they are jealous but i dont think it is it i think people hate me but im not sure i am alot bigger than most people not weight size but heigth. i am 6.1 and only in the 8th grade and im 15 tomorrow i need to know what to do because im starting to have a hard time with things.

Answer 1

First study why people as been making fun of you. second stay cool, third make a change, fourth stop the kind of your life style it will never help you as female/male.

Answer 2

Ok I will be completely honest, honey, if I saw a 6 foot girl dressed in Goth on the street..I would go the opposite direction just to avoid you.
I think you probably have some people afraid just by the way you dress, but there is something really important that I have to say with that: You can be ANYONE you want to be. If you could wave a magic wand and change it- would you be scary or nice? you have the ability to change what people see when they look at you...and that is important. Because no matter what people say, the cover of a book may not tell you how great it is, but it definately will tell you if you want to get close enought to open it.
follow your heart....
And, honey, being tall is a GREAT thing. You might someday make millions as a model or a basketball player!!!

Answer 3

Why don't you take up a sport where your difference will make you valuable. That whole goth thing has a self pity and hide from the world element to it, although I think goth chicks are cute.

The older you get the more you heigth will be less of an minus and more of a plus. Also the older you get the less you will care what other people think.

Answer 4

Kids, no matter what age, can be very cruel. They pick on you because you're different. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being different. You say that you have Goth friends, so not everyone is picking on you.
Sometime, someday these people will grow up and you will move on in your life. You will no longer have to deal with these people. Until then, just accept yourself for who you are and know that being different isn't a bad thing.

Answer 5

The best advice I can give is to really get to know yourself. You have chosen a certain persona (Gothic hard core rock) You have become a certain person or have tried to look like a certain type of person to protect your feelings. And tried to "belong" somewhere. As far as the situation in high school. Kids are brutal.
School is a building full of insecure immature people. Every person you come in contact with has there own set of issues and problems. You aren't alone. Yours may be different, but universally you are in the same boat as everyone else in your school. Its hard not to take the words and actions of others personal. But you need to learn what to do to take care of yourself and like yourself as a human being. That type of personality takes courage. That is something that people are attracted too and most everyone strives for but get lost along the way. Take this opportunity to really examine yourself and your motives and feelings about who you are. What other people say...Has nothing to do with how you feel about yourself. The truth of you...is your choice. It's not the thoughts or attitudes you encounter through out the day. But who you decide to be at the end of it.

Answer 6

This is pretty simple:They are teasing you because you are part of a different world where other people are different that normal people. I know how you feel, I've been teased this way for a few years now, but people already forgot about what happened.First of all: Dont believe what other people tell you.Second:Express yourself because you are yourself and this is your life because it is YOUR personality.So act the way you want to be.Third:If people tease a lot, think o brutal comebacks,like if they tell you about your body or face say,"At least i dont have *** face like yours"think of something.
Remember: You are special, dont believe what other people say to you, express yourself, because you are you!:)

Answer 7

It would help if you looked and dressed in a more friendly way. Wearing black makes you look weird and threatening to most people. No, they are not jealous; they are uncomfortable around you. Goth is so 90's anyway.
By the way, super models are your height so that is no the problem. Soften your style and put a smile on your face.

Answer 8

get over the goth, you all look like you should be in a circus,, if you want to be a individual fine, but seems like goth people are all followers, I would suggest,, being you, listen to what you want, and be who you want to be,, a individual,, you will get more respect doing that than you will painting your nails black and piercing all kinds of things, Look around you,, How many 30 yo goths do you know,, 40 yo,,

Bill gates is a billionaire and was a computer nerd, but he was a individual, now has more money than god

Answer 9

You're different from most people in that you're a goth, but thats you and people will just have to get used to it.

What to do? Hold your head high, be confident and be yourself. Dont try to change yourself to fit in with other people. Just be happy in who you are.

Answer 10

You can't change who you are, and you seem to be fine to me. Nothing to make fun of you about. Those other people are jealous of you for you being grounded on who you are and what you want to become in life. you seem normal and people like teenagers like to tease other people cause they are insecure on who they are as a person. Just ignore them and tell them to get a life. don't let these low lives get to you.