Question Details: 3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted to take some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back. We have been happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not. I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from the gym and someone from work. The past few days I have been trying not to take it out on her that I am jealous. I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend. I have been asking her all the details of what happened and my girlfriend feels uncomfortable telling me, but I feel I need to know. Is this bad? Please give me advice if yo have any!d
2006-12-01 01:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that was a huge mistake! Never ask for time apart, cause when u finally reconnect, your bound to find out something u really didnt want to know. Just forget it. It was you who wanted to take a break so its you who has to deal with it now. Be a man about it and just be thankful you have her back.
2006-12-01 02:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there and done that with my boyfriend.. We are not together now but. yeah. You should not be jelous at all! It is your fault to be honest. Not trying to make you feel bad but, you are the one that wanted the break which means, you two we're not a couple. You had no say on anything at that point. That was her life being single! Just deal with it. There is nothing to be mad about when you we're the one who wanted to take a break from her.
2006-12-01 09:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong. From her point you rejected her. She was very lonely and looking for some closeness to get over you. What she did is natural. Your asking for details is wrong. Do not put her in that position. Also if you knew all the details it would only make things worse for you. Forget it ever happened and move forward. Blame yourself and not her!
2006-12-01 09:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by lefty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u wanted the space, you got it now deal with it and move on before she tells you she wants space and leaves you.
2006-12-01 09:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋