My Girlfriend keeps sayin she is pregnant??!?!?

Question

Hi,My girlfriend recently told me she was pregnant,she was just gone 5 weeks.....but i dunno how she could be?She was on the pill and I used Protection,She said she has gone for tests but never told me about them I don't know what to do?she has used this kind of story before!!!=( But she is been really serious about it?!?! what should I do?

HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

I am a highly intelligent,experienced woman, and I can tell you Exactly what she is doing.... She is trying to push you into a "commitment" called Marriage! - Better go to the doctor with her, or better still, buy a Pregnancy Test at the Drug Store, go into the bathroom, (at home) with her, and see for yourself. If you are correct, you will know what to do. If she refuses to do it for you with you present,then you caught her! Run Fast, the next thing she will do, is go off the Pill and not tell you! - She must Really Love You Kiddo!!!

Answer 2

First of all, the pill and a condom mean jack s h i t. The only true protection is abstinence. But who wants to use that kinda protection right? By having sex though, you run the risk of impregnating somebody no matter how much "protection" you use. It's a risk you have to tell yourself you're willing to take no matter the consequences. If you're g/f is really pregnant, don't leave her hanging. Go wtih her to the appt's and be there for her as much as you can. It'll be alot easier to shift into parenting mode if you guys work together. If, on the other hand, your g/f is a drama queen or a liar, you need to dump her. You said she's used this story before? If she can't prove it, she's playin you for a fool. Girls often do become scared if they're "late" and automically think "Oh God...what if I'm pregnant?" But if she's telling you that she's had tests that prove it, you better ask to see those.

Answer 3

Relax. Although it sounds like she wants to get pregnant. She MAY have stopped the pill a long time ago in hopes of a pregnancy. Wait for the test results, ask to see the test results or go to the appointment with her. If she has already gone for the tests ask to see the results or go out and buy a pregnancy test yourself and tell her you would like to see the results for yourself. All she had to do is pee on a stick. If you are afraid she'll be angry tell her you want to start a memory box for the baby and it would be really nice for the child to see the beginning of his/her life with the positive test 15-20 years from now. You have the right to know if she's really pregnant. If she isn't going to help you believe then she's hiding something. I wouldn't have sex with someone if you don't want children right now and she's playing the baby game. Good luck and remember you are not a bad person to want proof!

Answer 4

If you used protection, and if she is pregnant, I would say she wasn't on the pill, or didn't take them. I would have her do a pregnancy test in front of you. Sounds to me she wants to be pregnant. If so, and you used protection I would have a DNA.
Sounds to me like she thinks being pregnant will keep you. Go to the Dr. with her, if she was gone 5 weeks I would have to question it.

Answer 5

First tell me. Are u dad of baby or someone else? If u r. U r responsible for the baby. Calm down. U must accept the baby. It is possible to have baby even with prevention. Maybe ur gf used another pill that it removed the effect of prevention pill. U r in doubt? Visit a doctor. Hey, what did u do to prevent having a baby?

Answer 6

Yes, you used protection but are you sure that you are the only one she was with? So she may very well be pregnant but it might not be yours. If she got a pregnancy test and won't share the results with you forget it, there has to be some stupid female reason she is withholding the information from you. And she is still your girlfriend? Come on dude, wake up.

Answer 7

tell her you want he to take a pregnancy test and you want to see the results. then if it's positive, you need to get a paternity test after she has it to see if it's yours. not to say that she's cheating or something but you treat a child differently when you know it's yours than when you aren't sure.

she could just be doing this for attention, there is this girl at work that is pregnant and then has a miscarriage every 4 months. i am not kidding. she was supposedly pregnant with twins for 6 months (and you couldn't tell at all) and one died so they had to abort the other one. yeah, right.

or she could be doing it because she thinks you might leave her or something and a baby would make you stay with her.

then again, she could be telling the truth. you never know until you see the test.

Answer 8

i hate to say it, but you should ask for proof. if she has used this as an excuse before the trust has been broken
I would def ask for the report from the doc saying that she is pregnant. there is always the possibility that she could be
Just becasue you used protection and she was on birth control does not mean that it is impossible
Ask for the proof in a nice way, dont make her think that you doubt her, but you need to know for sure and her word is not worth much right now

Answer 9

Lieing about being pregnant is no joke at all. I'm surprised you could stay with her after she lied about this the first time!!!

Tell her you want to go to a doctor's appointment with her. that should get her to fess up to whether this is a lie or not. Even if she won't, you will find out the truth at the appointment.

I would strongly suggest that you leave her if this is a lie like the last time!!!

Good luck!

Answer 10

OK... gone where for 5 weeks?
get a home pregnancy test for the next time you see her... then have her do it right then and there..
If she was gone for 5 weeks... & she is telling the truth... it could very well not be yours.