s. I do enjoy the power and control I have over him...when I smoke cigarettes and wear tight jeans, but I am wondering if this is an obssesion of his that will cause problems down the road? Anyone ever experienced this?
2006-12-01 00:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Err, those are weird fettishes. Give up the cigs love. No good for you. Tight jeans, if you look good in 'em, then wear 'em, I doubt if this is really some kind of control over this guy. He's just a normal sexually aware bloke, and a chick in tight jeans is attractive to all or most.
2006-12-01 01:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kesta♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As one of the many fish in the sea, I say, care about yourself first in this kind of thing. Tight jeans well attract any guy for obvious reasons. Wear them if you feel comfortable in them. As a woman, you can excercise the "power" of control over a guy in many ways, sometimes just with a smile.
My dad died of cancer and lived a full life but only to 64 years of age. The last time he died, his face looked like a skeleton. Before that, yellow teeth, constant coughing, bad skin, (yellow sheets) etc, were side effects of his smoking. My dad, happily smoked till the end. I won't lie, he enjoyed it. His last cigarette was his last waking hour before he drifted off to sleep and within a few hours to die.
I don't think the obsession of his will cause problems down the road but if he's INTO you, he'll want yout to quick smoking ASAP because he care about YOU. If he does not care about YOU, why do you want to stay with the guy?
Sad but true.
2006-12-01 01:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do know what you mean, I know a lot of guys who love both of those things and think it's sexy. It's cool for a while but yes it will cause problems down the road. Like lung cancer and heart disease. Wear the tight jeans all you want but do you really want to pay the price later for smoking just to look good?
2006-12-01 01:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say thats harmless. I would worry if he had a pee and drop bomb fetish. Foot fetish- it would be embarrasing in a shoe shop hehe. Maybe he has watched the Dukes of Hazard with Daisy Duke. Maybe he likes the way ur lips go over the cigarette... Try a chuppa-a-chup
2006-12-01 01:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lazarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah he will grow out of it before it becomes a problem but i think every man thats str8 enjoys tight jeans on chicks only a hand full enjoy watching them smoke but that handful is bigger than you would thing when they have websites out there that are strickly woman smokeing topless.
i wouldnt worry about it though fetish's either get grown out of or are well controllable
2006-12-01 01:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
fetishes are typically a problem only when they are a REQUIREMENT for sex. However, now you found Superman's kryptonite, time to exploit it. It is your destiny oh great woman..
Stay slim in those jeans and don't inhale.
That way you are eating healthy and or working out to stay slim (and attractive) not inhaling will clean those lungs too. I bet you boyfriend would find it just as stimulating if you switched from cigarettes to say a popcicle (sugar free fat free vitamin fortified)
2006-12-01 01:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by GoodTimesMakingMoney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep smoking and you'll continue to have a wonderful relationship.
2015-04-05 03:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are visual creatures. They are stimulated by what they can see. That's why women spend so much money on makeup and clothes! There's nothing you can do to change it. Your guy is perfectly normal. At least he doesn't want you to dress as a naughty school girl...oops. Too much info.
2006-12-01 01:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by philyra2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't think of an answer cause all I keep thinking about now is you in tight jeans smoking a cig. THANKS A LOT!
2006-12-01 00:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey-it is part of you! Enjoy it!
2006-12-01 01:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by MICKEY M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋