I smacked my girlfriend last night because she threw a pot at me and hit me? Was I justified?

Question

I smack the dog piss out of my girl because she went crazy last night over some old text message she found in my phone. She inflicted harm on me so I slapped her and she fail to the ground. I told her to "shut the **** up and go to her room" Am I women beater?

Answer 1

yeah......go to your room

Answer 2

Ok she was wrong for going through your cell but what did u have to hide? You look guilty now cuz u r defending yourself. Two wrongs dont make a right. Why u just didnt leave the house and go sit in the car. Or maybe just telling her she has nothing to worry about because u love her and come home to her everyday.

You should have never hit her....she threw the pot in anger cuz she is crazy in luv with u....but i see that a crime and u made her pay the price.

You should be begging for her forgiveness

Answer 3

YOU ARE A WOMAN BEATER!! you know that the text message was something you are doing wrong NOW!! and yes she got angry!! what woman wouldn't!!, but she was wrong in throwing the pot at you instead she should have just flung you out the door with your nasty attempt to put the blame on her for your guilt. And on top of it all you then treat her like a child and send her to her room, man you've got balls!! hope they drop off

Answer 4

Yes, in times like this it's best if you walk away from her. She's angry and just wants to hurt you. Get in your car go somewhere, lock yourself in somewhere. Just get away from her. It's always looked down upon when a man hits a woman but never the other way around. In the law yes, both of you are at fault but in society it's seen as you should've been the man and walked away. By the way, why did you keep the text?

Answer 5

Uh, yes, if you beat women, then you are a woman beater. I don't think a man should ever hit a woman, but i really don't know what i would have done if she is getting violent and using a pot as a weapon. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Could be the beginning of ongoing abuse. Neither male nor female has a right to be physically abusive. You were both wrong.

And, re phone message. If you're not being faithful, give her a break and move on.

Answer 7

No you should have left and left her in the process. You are never justified in hitting a woman. Yes you are a woman beater.

Answer 8

Well Duh,, of course N.O.T !! You had a choice: strike or walk away,, and you can’t make the right choice. She is no prize either if she uses violence! You both need H.E.L.P. with anger management and Communication skills !!! Both of you better get counseling NOW !
Unless of course You and Her like living like a couple of small juveniles smacking the snot out of each other !!

Answer 9

well you hitting her wasn't clever, but her throwing things at you isn't either. even so, that doesn't justify either of your's actions. maybe you to need to sit down and think of a better way to communicate, so if a difficult situation does arise, you'll be able to sort it out calmly, as opposed to resorting to violence.

Answer 10

Hell YEAH!!...Smack that !!...don't let her get away for throwing the pot...who knows?..what she's going to do next?...throw a knife at you!!....come on...but on the other hand...you should've elbow dropped her while she was down on the ground.....hahahahaha....just kidding ..you were wrong....now apologize.

Answer 11

i hope you walk into oncoming traffic...

you are a lying piece of crap for having another slut text you on your phone. We all know damn well that it wasn't an old text you idiot.
It's your fault..YOUR FAULT YOUR FAULT
FACE IT

you messed up i hope she l;eaves you and you get an STD from some whore you sleep with