I am 24 and met a woman at work about a year ago who was 35, divorced with 3 kids. I liked her a lot and thought she was a very interesting woman, we went out and had lunches together and she told me all about this guy she was seeing who was slightly older and it was all secret because he was living with his girlfriend and had been for 3 years. I thought this odd but never the less none of my business.
As the relationship progressed I got used to her odd behaviour and found it quite quirky, I also met the kids. Until something happened recently, she started sleeping with random men she had met at nightclubs and having unprotected sex, also her ex husband came back to live with her for a short while. I guess my morals were called into question and I couldn't believe how this woman could be so carefree and I didn't agree with it. Since then we have lost contact but I can't but help think about her and hope she is ok, people have said to me forget about her she is a grown woman
2006-12-01 00:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by jdfjdlj j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are right she is a grown woman and she has a right to sleep with whomever she chooses. Would you find it odd if a man was going out and hooking up with random girls..probably not. So you just stopped being her friend because she did things YOU didnt agree with...some friend YOU turned out to be.
2006-12-01 00:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is mentally ill, but i think she's a few fries short of a happy meal. No....it no longer is ur concern, but it is very nice of u to still think of her and be concerned. To sleep with numerous, random men, and have unprotected sex is NOT normal. She's 35, and i think she shouldhave a little more sense than that, especially considering all the illnesses and diseases out there. I think u made the right decision to lose contact with her. The only advise that I can give u is not to dwell on it so much, she's grown enough to make her own decisions, and if that is the lifestyle she choose for her and her children, then so be it. I wouldn't call her or try to touch base with her, cuz I just think that a woman like that is trouble. Good Luck!
2006-12-01 00:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a schizo Grandmother, yet she took her meds and that i not in any respect truly knew she had this sickness. i presumed a number of her habit change right into somewhat strange, yet no longer something too loopy. My uncle is mentally retarded. He has the mentality of a 12 12 months previous, yet previous that he doesn't do something loopy. I continuously idea-about him like an pretty massive youngster, inspite of the actuality that he had grownup manners. i don't think of i truly knew anybody else with what might want to be considered intense psychological subject matters. yet there are a ton of addicts in my relations on each and every area. i change into conscious that some human beings are "loopy" and spot or listen issues that are not there, yet i don't think of I ever equated that to faith. i change into surrounded through believers. From abode, to college, to acquaintances... universal. It change into like "understanding" that god change into actual, no longer a perception. i recognize now that it change right into a perception, yet at the same time as it really is such an critical area of your existence, you imagine of it as actuality, no longer a warped perception like the fantasy of the mentally ill.
2016-10-08 01:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental illness is a serious medical diagnosis that only very few on this site would be qualified to make given the proper information.
Not only have you not given sufficient information, the information you have given doesn't wholely support your conclusion.
Her sudden promiscuity could very well be nothing more than her taking advantage of her single status while she can, and in no way indicates mental illness.
2006-12-01 00:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mind body and soul are all connected. If one component becomes ill all components become ill. It sounds as though she has a spiritual problem. However, it may have extended to mental health beahvioral problems now. She will continue and next become physically ill if she does not get help.
2006-12-01 01:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is extremely misguided. She doesn't know in what direction to go.
You can worry about her. That would be a good friend. However, you can't do much about it because she is a grown woman.
2006-12-01 00:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can care for her as a friend, but not a romantic relationship type. She isnt a very commited nor sturdy lady. In fact, she isnt acting lady like at all.
2006-12-01 00:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the divorce has destroy her. But what are you doing with her?. You have your life ahead and why do you share experiences of divorce before your time.
2006-12-01 00:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ALS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably nymphomaniac, or probably her former husband got her all screwed up.
You can try to help her if you can, but I would forgt having a relationship with her.
2006-12-01 00:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be, she sounds very self-destructive. i've known and counseled ppl who behave this way when they go on and off their bi-polar meds. not only is it scary, it gets very tiring. she may even have a border-line personality disorder...hard to say. my advice to you is to care about her from afar...they can suck you dry and go on their merry way without a look back.
2006-12-01 00:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋