The pic was not nasty or bad. It was an action shot at work. It was not related to her job. He works out of the country and they work together occassionally.
2006-12-01 00:29:54 · 22 answers · asked by donna b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm...yeah. Would he e-mail a picture of himself to a male coworker with the message "Maybe I'll see you tomorrow?"
2006-12-01 00:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He emailed a co-worker a pic and said see you tomorrow. Unless it was a day he wasn't working and told you otherwise I'd stop being paranoid.
Departments sometimes do activities or funny projects together. Could be a company outing. Whatever.
S&M (Sales and Marketing) and I.T. Departments do stuff like that all the time. They'll do something with it in photoshop or something like that.
Just ask what's with the photo is a non-threatening fashion. Because if it you go at him and accuse him and it's nothing then YOUR a$$ is in the dog house not his!
2006-12-01 00:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the person he emailed it to is female, then I'd think it was a little weird and ask him about it. I'd be calm when I asked him, though, just in case it is an innocent work thing.
Do you check his email or did he do this in front of you? If he did while you were standing right there, then my guess would be that it's just a work thing. He probably wouldn't send an email to his mistress while you're standing there watching.
2006-12-01 01:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by K H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red Flag, I would question that email. If he had sent one with the pic saying Hi wanted to drop you a line, ok, but the question are you mad?????? What is that about? If it sounds like a duck quacks like a duck, chances are its a duck. Good luck
2006-12-01 00:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by missy j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you work with a person for an extended period of time, you become friends with that person. It sounds as if they have become "phone buddies", and wish to have a power lunch in person. The picture was most likely for identity purposes, so she would know who he was when she walked into the restaurant. It's easy to jump to conclusions, but it sounds perfectly legitimate to me.
2006-12-01 00:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why. Does she need a picture for a work related advertisement or something like that? If you don't believe his answer, ask her and see if she says the same thing. I always try not to overact.
2006-12-01 00:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a bit like something may be going on. I would try talk to your husband but if it was my husband i would accuse and talk later lol, sorry that is me!!. If nothing else you can be sure a little flirting is going on and i would hate it if it were my husband. Good luck.
2006-12-01 00:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why he sent this picture. Did you ask him? Let him know you are uncomfortable with this and just watch to see what contact he has with her outside of work.
2006-12-01 00:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep....I'd be mad. Seeing or talking to co-worker is one thing. The pic wasn't necessary.
2006-12-01 00:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will try to find out what is going on for him to be sending other women his pics.
2006-12-01 00:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mary W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋