What would you do if you were 17 and lost everything accept your family and bf, than your family make you choose them or your bf, you chose your bf, And are now in an uncontrollable situation that you don't know how to get out of because your bf lies and cheats and causes problems, makes your friends dislike you and you cant get out of because they threaten a lot of thing they will do, not only to you but to themselves... What would you do please help
2006-12-01 00:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by trixiepinx89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would you chose a lieing and cheating piece of S*** b/f over a caring family???? ARE YOU THAT DESPARATE FOR THE SEX????? DAMN!!! GET A VIBRATOR!!! KEEP THE FAMILY!!!
2006-12-01 00:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
choose your family. they know what's best for you. your situation is not new anymore. many have gone through that. some chose their family and lived a happy life. many chose their bf/gf but only few survived. choosing your bf gets you no where. your still a minor. you cannot stand alone without your family. that's reality. choose your family before it's too late.
2006-12-01 00:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by castroville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should never be a choice when it comes to family. You should have talked to your parents and ask them why the choice? Sounds like they were looking out for you. Its not to late to tell them; they were right. Give them a big hug. Leave the bf. You'll find another bf but not parents.
2006-12-01 00:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by nansea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are RIGHT for now.
You are not married to this man, and if he is causing nothing but problems in your life, then First of all. Diss him!
Second, get closer to your family, because you need them at this time.
Third, when you get married, thats when you will then cling to your husband and choose your husband over your family.
Family matters, dont get me wrong. But when your in a relationship with the right one, then its not about people or family when it comes to decision making. Its about the team, man and wife.
2006-12-01 00:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
:( :( I feel really sorry for you, basically you made the wrong choice. Your gonna have to apologize and make up with your family. Family is the most important thing you have in this world, be glad you have them, and they probably had a good reason why you needed you to get rid of b/f.
2006-12-01 00:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nick T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY..............
Your family are and will always be there..
friends and boyfriends come and go...
If you don't get away now you are in for a ROUGH life....
I'm 25 and have been in a similar situation.
All i can say is LEAVE him and DON"T be afraid to ask your family for HELP....
2006-12-01 02:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by shellee80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should have choosen your family and not your bf. you are paying for the big mistake. I dunno how to help you. But I can say, go back to your family and ask for forgiveness. Hope everything gets well. Take care
2006-12-01 00:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your boyfriend. Get new friends. Don't go grovelling to your parents.
2006-12-01 00:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
in your case, family
2006-12-01 00:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋