My girlfriend is 17 and she is scared because i am in the army....I was in Iraq and then I got sent home but I going to end up going back...She keeps saying I should just leave her and not worry about her....But I do and I love her so much! I need some help really soon!
2006-12-01 00:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That is really sweet of you...
-maybe she's telling you to leave her not because of you but her...I mean, sometimes is very hard to deal with the fact that our loved one is far away...and risking his life everyday...somaybe that is stressing her out...which is not good for the baby.
-Nice to know you want to offer all the support she needs and be there for her...just make sure you get a license (if possible) to be there for her when she delivers...it would be awesome for you too.
-You need to talk to her and give her confidence that you love her so much and that you are always gonna be there in her life and your baby's...and that you are doing fine...I know that's the issue that worries her a lot.
I hope you come back soon though, and well, that war makes no sense to me at all...
Good luck!! and congratulations on your baby
2006-12-01 00:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she says just go then go. You need to not fight her. be happy she isnt one of those super possesive pregnant women. Some women never want to be left alone even for a second. She will be fine. Child bearing is a natural proccess and there are the best doctors and procedures now over 100 years ago. Go and serve our country without a worry! Thank you for your concern, you are a good boyfriend.
PS she seems stong, dont worry about her, if she's strong like i think, she will hold her own, and get done what she wants.
2006-12-01 08:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no reason you cant work it out. I dont have any kids but my husband was away in the army for 2 years, lots of letters and phone calls let me tell ya. Absense makes the heart grow fonder and you have a baby on the way which is the most important. Dont give up now, just because she's telling you to move on. Think of how your child would feel if he/she never gets to meet you and possibly has some other man raising him/her as their own. You are obviously a loyal man, you serve our country and fulfill your duties as a soldier and you need to fulfill your duties as a father as well, regardless if your miles away! Good luck and thank you for supporting our country.
2006-12-01 10:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by ELW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all she really needs is your support. She is probably trying to be strong for you because she knows that it must be mentally and emotionally stressful for you to be in the army and having this baby. Just give her as much love and support as you can offer...it sounds like that might be just what she needs!
2006-12-01 08:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get married before you go back. If you love her want are you waiting for? give her a strong hold on you relationship so she well be more secure that its her you well be coming back to.
good luck.
2006-12-01 08:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Working....
2006-12-01 08:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. don't leave her. she is in her last trimester and needs your support
2. how far have you gone with baby clothes
3. when is the big day
4. don't read books on pregnancy. get it straight from parents, or from your doctor.
best of luck. enjoy your bundle of joy:)
2006-12-01 08:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by ozferatu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should marry her, and refuse to join in any more tours.
2006-12-01 08:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her.
Thank you for serving!
2006-12-01 08:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it's best to follow her advice, as makeing her worried might complicate the preganacy.
2006-12-01 08:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by mr.truth 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋