i am 15 i need to grow up but i am scared of everything. I think its becuz i will be alone when i am sick at night but idk
2006-12-01 00:11:08 · 5 answers · asked by *~Miley Cyrus fan*~ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sweetie,at your age you need your own room.Everyone fears certain things and this just happens to be yours.When you actually have your own room you will enjoy it.You will be able to do what you do in the privacy of your own room.No one will be there to bother you and im sure youll enjoy it.Every girl needs her own room,especially as she begins to go through her teen years.There are alot of changes with the body that happens around that time,if not sooner of course and it is something that im sure you will enjoy.It is a way of becoming independent.It isnt as if you are moving away from home,simply starting to become a little more independent by having your own room and not being stuck with a sibling and such.You will get used to it.Everyone fears being independent at one point or another,however this is the first step you take.It is good to be independent.To be able to enjoy things by yourself.If you need a moment you can always go to your room,no one will be there because it is yours.It is very fun,and you will come around with the idea.
As far as you being ill,you will not be alone.Your guardian(s)/parent(s) will always be around when you need them.It isnt them abandoning you,simply giving you,your space.As you get older you tend to appreciate your space.Good luck hun,have a good day.
2006-12-01 00:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Never feel embarrassed by deep seated fears or anxieties. All adults have them. The difference between being a kid and a grown up is simple awareness and resources. You need to get a deeper awareness of what is really making you have these emotions. Was it something in your past? Is it an experience of someone else who was ill that scared you as a child? We all carry these kinds of experiences into our lives and we must be aware of them, the root causes of our behavior, in order to manage them. This is where resources comes in. You need support. What are your resources? Is there someone who is a qualified counselor, someone you trust, that you can talk to about these fears. A great many adults (and younger people) go to counselors to get a trained, objective opinion in confidence. It is a safe place to talk. Think about what resources you have. Become aware that this fear about the room is not really about the room at all, but about something deeper. Get help dealing with that and you will be fine. Welcome to being a grown up! :)
2006-12-01 08:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where are you alone. God is with you always. Your your feelings, your emotions with you, your dreams with you so now you need some privacy. Have your own room and enjoy.
2006-12-01 08:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by loveboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who do you usually sleep with?
Grow up and get your own room. if id doesnt work out move back in with sister/brother/etc
2006-12-01 08:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn to write and quit being a baby miley is a baby!!
2006-12-01 08:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋