please help me i have just lost the love of my life and idk wat 2 do............................... :( (considering suicide)
2006-11-30 23:55:49 · 10 answers · asked by 69_SxC_Boi_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remind yourself of a couple of things here. First, if she left, she wasn't right for you and moreover, if she was right, have faith (and stay positive) that she will realize her mistake and come back. So don't burn any bridges but don't put your life on hold, either. Secondly, no emotion is unwarranted. It's not about religion, just a figure of speech, but have you ever heard, "You have to go through hell to get to heaven"? Don't get down on yourself. Just remind yourself constantly that while it may suck, you'll be alright eventually and a better person when you're past it. Keep your head up.
2006-12-01 00:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer.
You have to be strong. You will get over this. It might not feel like it right now and it may feel like the world is ending, but trust me you will get over this.
Take it one day at a time, one step at a time. Try to do things that make you happy or keep you occupied. Little by little you'll find things get easier. Trust me, there probably isnt a girl out there who hasnt been through what you're going through.
2006-12-01 07:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do such a stupid thing as riding yourself from this world? Is not like life is great, but it has it's good things also. I think that's the selfish easy way out. Have you stopped to think of the other people that like you and enjoy your company? people like friends and family for example. Just because someone dumped you it means you'll rid all those people from your existance? Sounds like you need proffessional help.
Besides, there's plenty of fish in the sea. Why complaining about ONE? Give yourself the chance to meet other people. Heartbreaks hurt, I know. But they're not the end of the world.
2006-12-01 08:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont concider suicide, that is not the answer!!! it may be hard to believe at this point but it will pass. when i lost my love it was so hard for me to get over, so i would do something to take my mind off like watch cartoons because in cartoons there is usually not bad things...it worked for me..but killing yourself wont help anything..your life is a precious gift from God and should not be thrown away. if you need someone to talk to feel free to IM me or email me.
2006-12-01 08:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, forget that idea. In the long run no one is worth your own happiness.
Look towards hope!! You have it, not everyone does but you do. You will find love again, trust me on this. Just about all of us have gone through loss and even death of a loved one.
Please remember time heals all wounds. You can get through this like so many before you.
If you need to please seek professional help!
2006-12-01 08:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u die, does it fix your broken heart?
I know what you feel coz this time as i typed my answer, i am broken hearted too.Feels like i want to die too but im afraid of GOD I dont want to go to hell. Its so hot in there. Do you want to be burn there. Think of it.
At least now u know that your not the only one who is broken hearted. Im not kidding, i really want to make my life end. Gosh i dont know how to live without Him but theres nothing i can do now, after loving him so much.. this is what i got. Thats life. Im sure GOD have better plan for us (to those who fall in love with the wrong person)
2006-12-01 08:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the best healer in teh meatime keep busy busy busy and go to your friends for help.
2006-12-01 08:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prayer is the best thing,i will pray for you,and i am here ready to listen!
2006-12-01 09:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the mother of all healers
2006-12-01 07:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and pray. time heals all wounds.
2006-12-01 07:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋