Any one have any suggestions to braking down mental barriers you have unwittingly placed apon yourself?
I've aprently decided I'm not ready for a good many things and have gone and put up a bunch of mental defenses and hid from myself... o.o
Which is just down right frustrating....
I'm sick of not being able to figure anything out about myself.... and really sick of the painful migraines I end giving myself from trying (not that I do all the time, I end doing it by mistake more than on purpose)... seams like every time I make a step in the right direction it gives me a headache... and the harder I push the more it hurts.
I'm a stubborn little bastard and about passed out once from pushing and not giving up.
I've tried to go about figuring out these things from different angles but it seams like no how many different always I try to figure myself out ... I've put up barriers to slow/stop myself....
Am I just going about all this the wrong away or what...
2006-11-30 23:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by CrazyCat 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
And I simply refuse to take "your not ready yet" for an answer.... **** that... I'm not getting anywhere sitting around doing nothing and I'm sick and tired of nothing in my life making any sense....
2006-11-30 23:15:28 · update #1
I'm the kinda person that whants to just get it over with.... and the fact that I don't ever seam to get anywhere with this just realy frustrates the heck out of me......
2006-11-30 23:20:20 · update #2
I applaud your determination, and offer you my encouragement. If you're willing to participate in them ,many eastern schools of thought solved these problems you're having a long time ago, with various meditative techniques.I won't go into them here but yoga,mudras, and such can be helpful in releasing mental barriers to learning and contemplation.
2006-11-30 23:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by enslavementality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to talk this out over a cup of coffee but you seem to not be interested in that so instead I'll say this.
Life has a way of tempering us that seems so damn unfair and unreasonable sometimes but the fact of thew matter is we generally hurt ourselves worse than life ever could by placing value on the wrong things to begin with. And the more we come to realize this the more we have to admit that what we believed and strived for all our lives was wrong to begin with. Its hard to admit that you have given years upon years of your life to a cause as unworthy as say a cheater, but when we can finally admit that then we can work thru it.
hope that helps...
one day at a time. live and let live. LGLG. you know all the one liners hun, use 'em.
2006-12-01 00:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"THE LIGHT SIDE OF THE SHADOW CHASERS" by Debbie ford, I think thats what its called. She has a couple of books about this anyway which make for a real interesting read and a GODsend if you follow the instructions...
You sound very much like me, the reality is we're just procrastinators buddy, but defo check out her work, it'll really challenge you on this,..
Good look... free to be, so be free...
2006-11-30 23:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by SUFI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I won't permit you realize to stop eating, it is your existence to do with as you please. yet i'd think of, its time you decrease decrease back on the quantity you do drink. human beings react in yet in a distinctive thank you to alcohol, some exchange into mean drunks, others, humorous and stupid. it variety of feels you regulate into purely somewhat mean once you do. i'm a sort of who exchange into stupid as quickly as I drink, and prefer to sing, So I merely make a fool out of myself, and no harm completed to others. i do no longer drink like that anymore. i'm extra purely a social drinker, with one or 2 glasses of beer or wine. No no longer common stuff. needless to say i'm no teen or teenager anymore. so which you have an common decision, in case you do no longer choose to stop eating, and with a bit of luck, you reside until eventually you have extra experience, and do stop, then you definitely could stay with the implications of being a inebriated. And furnish your apologies the subsequent day, once you sober up. no you would be able to help you, different than your self. you're able to be certain, what's extra substantial on your existence, eating and picture you're having relaxing, or being an average inebriated, once you drink.
2016-10-04 14:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im proud of you you just got it all out. Beauty your got it solved how many in this world would have the guts to be so open. When its bad just go and mastubate you can just forget your problems your head ache and enjoy one of lifes easiest gained pleasures go for it.
2006-11-30 23:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going. Remember, you don't have to do it all at once. It's better to take small, consistent steps than to make inconsistent, heroic efforts. It'll hurt less that way, too.
2006-11-30 23:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by halitobro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The TRUTH will set you free. Your WORLDLY-SELF can not do for you what you need to be a whole person. LET GO and LET GOD! Ask God to be your SAVIOR, REPENT of your sins, ASK God for direction and WISDOM, and PRAY (just talk to God).
I used to have really bad headaches too. Now that God is in my life I "punish" myself with Answers.com...haha!
Hope this helps!
2006-11-30 23:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by D.A. S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O.o
Join the army
(only if you don't have to go to Iraq)
2006-11-30 23:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a nap
2006-11-30 23:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it go
2006-11-30 23:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋