if u have a boyfriend that u have been with for 8yrs.every since u were 15yrs old and he has went 2 jail twice through out the relationship and he promises that this time will be diffrent no more going 2 jail.do u try this relationship 1more time or do u just say f**k it enough is enough.someone please tell me what should u do
2006-11-30 23:06:47 · 9 answers · asked by liltt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say ***** IT, Jail birds arent worth loosing sleep over...
2006-11-30 23:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun thats a tough one. The easiest answer would be to kick him to the kerb and be one your way. However, life's not that simple. You obviously love this guy very much, as you would still be running if you didn't...
What is he going to jail for? Can you be a part of his rehabilitation? If there is still love between you a split isn't going to work, and you will fall into an on/off relationship, because you aren't over each other.
You could try giving him an ultimatum to shape up or ship out, but unless he wants to change, it could be just a waste of time. But if you do decide to split, you will need to find closure and move on....best of luck...
2006-12-01 07:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by holdengal81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a bit of a bad boy. Not the kind of guy you'd want your daughter ending up with. So why are you with him? If he loved you, he'd keep him ar5e out of trouble and try to work hard and earn enough cash to provide for you both. Their is no future with someone who doesn't respect himself, nevermind anyone else.
Be a smart girl, dress nice, go out and find a nice bloke who will treat you right, not be a scum bag.
2006-12-01 07:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man thats tough.. does he listen to you? sometimes people stay in a realtionship when they believe that their partner could change them. maybe youre his only hope. however, prioritize yourself. if youre not getting the right treatment, then leave. if you still love him and you believe that you change him and if you could still put up to all of his crap, stay with him. youve been through a lot of things together and it really isnt easy to say "f*** it enough is enough" to that kind of relationship. take care :)
2006-12-01 07:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to say enough is enough......do you really want to live your life like this? Move on and find someone who can keep themselves out of jail otherwise, you will be living a miserable life...good luck
2006-12-01 07:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a responsible boyfriend.
2006-12-01 07:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up-you can still be good friends & see other people. you've known him for so long, he can be like a "best friend" to you. (if he understands you wanna just be friends.)
2006-12-01 07:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you passed enough a long time ago
2006-12-01 09:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a foresight of what is to come, you deserve better, get away now.
2006-12-01 07:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by tom_fchs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋