this guy,i just met him the other day on a jeep,then i saw him again the next day,,then he begins to ask a lot about me,,then he acompanies me home..i never knew that he likes me,i thought we'd be friends only,but then he said yesterday,he likes me. What will i do?i said u dont even know me.? i have a boyfriend who is far from me...can you help me out
2006-11-30 22:56:29 · 3 answers · asked by yana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest, tell him you've got a boyfriend at the moment and that you don't know him well enough.
If you think he might be better for you than your actual boyfriend, ask him to have patience, so the two of you can get to know each other better. If he's really interested in you, he will understand and allow you the time you need.
You should also tell your boyfriend what's happening, that you don't want to break with him, but that someone else shows interest in you and you want to know him better. It might be awkward for you to tell that, but it wold be much worse, if your boyfriend found out by himself.
2006-11-30 23:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a similar problem - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years (long distance) and last september, we moved in together... But I met this guy - his friend who I was attracted to and he was attracted to me too.. Last weekend, something happened - my bf was away and I got a bit closer with his friend than I should have... I didnt cheat, but I felt so bad that I broke up with my boyfriend. I still love my boyfriend, but I am in love with his friend, which is a worst situation... So I will just wait and see... Time is the thing that will sort this thing out... Also, after some time, I will realise who I want to be with and work on it then...
So if you have feelings / or you are attracted to the other guy, have a break with your bf and sort your feelings out... Because its not fair to your boyfriend if you think of another guy... If you dont like the other guy, tell him you have a boyfriend and you dont want anything more than friends with him :)
2006-12-01 07:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for a woman to not fully commit to one guy. Go with him. Try him out. If he is a good relationship. Better then your current one. Then out with the old and in with the new!
2006-12-01 07:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋