I found out that my girl friend was cheating on me when I visited her and found her with another guy. after all the anger and confusion, she told me she will rather be with the guy. After two months she called me up and said she decided to be with that guy because he pays her school fees and house rent bills. but she swore that she realy do love me and not the other guy. she now said that ever since that incidence she has never known peace. and that she has called it quit with the guy and she wants me back. what should I do? should I take her back? cos I beleive in the words " once bitten, twice shy" so I'm afriad this can happen again. and more over we are not living in the same city. so please I need answers.
2006-11-30 22:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by queclove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she has done it once,she more than likely do it again , you would be better off spending a little time and effort in finding a new girl.Plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-11-30 23:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by chascicc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has her priorities wrong. What happens when the handsome young executive with the flashy company car chats her up? Will she stay true to you? She sounds like a material girl. It's going to be hard to trust her.
2006-11-30 22:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The has basically prostituted herself for personal gain and furtherment. What's to say she won't do it again should the opportunity arise.
Forget her and find someone who won't throw you away like some dirty, crusty panties whenever the mood takes her. You deserve better than this whore..........tell her to get bent!
2006-11-30 22:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take her back sounds to me she is gonna keep on playing both of yas she wants to burn the candle at both ends getting money from one and getting other support from you let the pig loose.
2006-11-30 22:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe I would ever trust her again. Terrible what she did to you. I cannot believe someone who cares for you could do that. But if you want to give her another chance it is up to you. Just be prepared for disappointment.
2006-11-30 22:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a "FOOL" !!
Yep ! Once bitten !!
(Tell her you'll take her back soon as you're done paying for your new girlfriends schooling !)
2006-11-30 22:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This leapord has revelaed it's spots. You need to know how much you like the bite of her fangs???
2006-11-30 22:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion you should give her up.... she cheated on you... if she really does love you, why did she cheat??? it's only my opinion.. It's up to you if you'll take her back..
2006-11-30 22:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by wwwdotshhhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any self-respect, you'll tell her to get lost!!
2006-11-30 22:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!! That left a mark didn't it. : (
2006-11-30 23:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋