Brad Pitt, Clooney, Depp. women who like these men boring?

Question

I have found if I want to find if a physically attractive women has depth (poential girlfriend material) or a level of shallowness I ask "who is your favourite man"?

If they reply the any of the above I think they're not original thinking,will leave all the romance all to me, and will be generally boring. So will maybe just sleep with them.

Does anybody have other 'tester' questions and are women conscious there cliche choices are a downgrade?

The point is in the rat race I personally feel tester questions are a great way to filter the rough from the smooth, and usually i'm spot on.

Oh and i'm very secure, have an active sex life, am well educated, successful, and am obviously doing something right.

So please reveal your tester questions?

Use empathy if you are a women and you asked a man who his favourite woman was and he came out with, Jordan, Britney Spears etc as opposed to somebody sophisticated wouldn't that give you an idea of who they are?

I am 24years old have had many deep relationships with great women worldwide, and only have casual sex with hot looking but not so bright chicks.

What's the problem?

So again what are your testers? women I know say they use them with guys to reassure them they love them.

Answer 1

I think this whole question say's more about you than the women you are talking about

Answer 2

Mate, just read what you've written - absolute b*ll*cks - I quite like all of the men you've mentioned - well not Pitt so much - but definitely the other two - they're brilliant eye-candy and they've had quite nice things written about them as well - and I think I'm doing you a favour (as are all the other women who have written here) when I say that it's really not the best thing to be judging a potential girlfriend by these brilliant 'testers' - you might be missing out on a lot of really special girls!!!! honestly - you cant really judge a person by a single statement anyway.

Answer 3

Depp would be my favourite, and the most sexiest, but I am original thinking. If I were in a relationship I would be the one with all the romantic and kinky ideas. So just because a woman happens to find one of the 3, or any other attractive celebrity out there, attractive or sexy does not mean that they are boring and let you pull all the strings in the relationship.

So pull your head out of the sand and start to realise that us women don't only like the Pitt, Clooney and Depp stereotypes and maybe if you got to know them a little more, you would find out that we do have minds of our own!

Answer 4

One of the problems is that the woman is going to answer you with a name you will recognise, and as these (whether you like to admit it or not) are all attractive, talented actors, it's quite natural for the women you ask to name one of these men. They offer the 'all round' package. Most people will presume this is what you are asking as why would anyone have any interest in the fact that they think the guy who works on the deli counter at Tesco's is fantastic.
I can to a degree see where you are coming from, and I don't feel your question is shallow or a negative reflection on your attitudes. However, I do feel your argument is somewhat flawed.

My 'tester' question would be,' If I was to invite you to dinner tomorrow, what would be the perfect meal I could cook for you?'.

Answer 5

personally, I have never really seen the attraction in the men you mention, but as you point out these men are typical answers to the question :ideal man/sexy man etc. You could say that typical male's 'ideal' woman etc consist of Jordan etc... so i suppose it is just whoever is most popular at the time.

I don't think I have used 'tester' questions...maybe when i was 'dating' or whatever i would ask what music they like and if it was pop i thought that i would have nothing in common with them and perhaps that liking pop is sad or was pretty shallow and boring, but i was a teenager then so music means everything at that age. These days its more each to their own!

Answer 6

I have asked such questions, but only in a very general way, out of curiousity and in order to get to know the man better. I would never use an answer, however, to decide whether, or not, I wanted to embark on a meaningful relationship with the him, because taken on its own, I don't think such an answer would be a reliable guide. When most men and women give the names of their favourite members of the opposite sex , they're usually just giving the names of those they find physically attractive and fanciable. If you got to know them better, you may find that the people they actually admire and look up to, are those who have achieved something in the arts, politics, writing ,etc. I've met many intelligent men and women, all high achievers in their own fields and I recall one of the females saying 'Oh, yes please!' when Johnny Depp's name was mentioned, yet her actual partner was of the same ilk as herself. Likewise, I've heard the males saying they like this or that film star, etc., but they're only talking about bodies, not minds. Perhaps you should change your question to: 'Who is your favourite PERSON?'. That should open the mind to more possibilities and more stimulating conversation. Stop being so sexually orientated!

Answer 7

You obviously haven't ever met anyone you're naturally, deeply attracted to otherwise grading systems and points awarding would be completely arbitary and meaningless. Perhaps you are gay. By the way, all the men you mention are extremely sexually attractive and that is why women like them. There is no mystery about it and neither is it a denominator of shallowness or depth. It is just a nice bit of fantasay which is psychologically healthy. Having sexual or philosophical fanatasies about Marx or Einstein is either trying too hard or plain wierd and my advice is to steer well clear.

Answer 8

Downey. He doesn't look aflicted with the entire Ego the others challenge; he's the king of self-deprecating humor. Bonus: Iron guy--see you later as i did not might want to clean up Tony's messes or deal with him on an afternoon-to-day foundation, because being acquaintances with a guy like which will be arduous. Batman is purely too a lot of a humorless stick-in-the-dirt, and Spiderman is purely too youthful.

Answer 9

I find men, that base relationship possibilities on who is your favourite star, to be uneducated, boring and very insecure (if the woman finds a star attractive what is she doing with me theory). I would not waste my time even sleeping with them, but find look for a man with an original thought and a more mature rating system for women. You know like style, grace, personality, attractiveness, sense of humour. I guess we know why you do not have a girlfriend.

Anyone looking for a real companion does not have tester questions. Most of us go with the flow and many times find a real gem where we least expected.

In your case I would suggest a dating service where you can have a yes or no column for your rather ridiculous and immature rating system.

Answer 10

Women who think these Guys are Handome/ Sexy ...whatever...! need to get down to Specsavers .. Pitt for a start ...did he not hump - Sinitta...( who -Stefan King assures us - he paid for the Sex change...) Clooney...a boring Square face who doesnt seem to hold on to a Bird for longer than the movie reaching DVD... and finally the lovely Johnny Boy - Sqeeeekk - isnt he the Film worlds version of David Beckham,. - A.bit skinny round calf area,... I must be the perfect Male...!

Answer 11

I must admit I find Clooney and Depp very sexy men, but I wouldn't say they're my favourite men! They're just nice to look at and watch act! Don't judge your potential 'belle' on a comment such as that! Get to know her better and see what really makes her tick otherwise you'll be the one who's being shallow!!