Do the bell ringers say something about the Red Cross org?

Question

Does the fact that have to shame people into contributing say something about the poor management of the Red Cross? I mean wouldn't you give freely without the shame tactic if it was a worthy group?

whoops, Salvation Army rather, not the Red Cross.

Answer 1

OK, honestly, I cannot afford to donate a lot of money, no matter how good my intentions are. I am a single mom of two. For me, I always question what is a two dollar check gonna do? But when my change is being combined with a little bit from other people, together we are doing more. AND I think that is the msg the Salvation Army is sending out...it may not seem like much from one, but when everyone works together we really can make a difference.
I am more inclined to drop my change in a bucket everytime I go to Walmart because who knows, I may actually be donating more than I would by writing a check anyway. (and, it lets boys participate in the spirit of giving to others, it's not just mommy writing a check and they not getting the idea of charity)

AND...at least for me, shopping makes my body make those "HAPPY CHEMICALS", that make me feel good about life, and again more likely to donate.

SO... YAY for the Bell ringers!!!

Answer 2

I'd punch a bell ringer if they tried to make me feel guilty. As long as there the Hiltons and the Gates I don't feel inclined to give anything. I live paycheck to paycheck and there are plenty of rich folks out there that don't give back a cent. If the Salvation Army wants to give somebody a hard time go rattle the cages of these folks - don't give me dirty looks as I'm trying to leave the grocery store or I'll pop you in the mouth.

Answer 3

Giving to charity is something that I enjoy doing. However, I don't have the means. When I walk out of the grocery store and there's a bellringer, it's okay with me, because I've got the money in my hand, I don't need the change that bad, and it's convenient. I can donate, feel like I'm making a difference, and not go out of my way and feel like it's a bad thing that I've only got $0.84 to give them.