How do Korean guys deal with this?

Question

How do Korean guys deal with their own Korean women prefering White men or non-Korean guys?

There're reasons for Korean women to be leaving their own Korean guys in millions. They are, but not limited to: no muscle, small private unit, no hairs on chest, high pitched voice, short height, not respectful to women (No where on earth, is the "our own women" thinking stronger than in Korea.).

Korean guys also feel threatened when they see a white man with their own woman. Well, here's my advice to Korean guys as a word of prudence. Don't get involved. She can decide what she wants herself.

Answer 1

they live with it

Answer 2

I wouldnt feel threatened at all if I was a dude.. There is always someone out there for you... These days with the choice of good men limited anyways for the women of the world.. take what you can ladies.. be it different culture, race, country, nationality whatever.. If he is good and true to you. go for him...
Just let the Korean men take white women then.. who cares...

Answer 3

Who do you think you are to dictate other men to get involved or whatnot? You obviously should be an white guy. What if an asian guy walk alongside with, say, white women? Would you be cool with that? What if the society puts tons of negative images over you. Would you still be cool?

Answer 4

There are Russians that look Asian. Like for example their great grand fathers are originally from Korea and they immigrated to Russia. It's uncommon, but they do exist in decent amounts.

Answer 5

Who the hell are you white r-tard? Those korean women who prefer white guys cuz they like white guys. And why is this such a big issue to you? You maybe are some white r-tard who works as a english teacher in Korea cuz u couldnt get any job in ur country huh? Poor Fella!
I would love to meet you MF!

Answer 6

I want to try to handle your question seriously, although I found it to be demeaning. There is some truth to what you are saying,as I will explain, some of the problem is brought about by social stigmas in Korea.

First the sex ratio in Korea is 117 guys per 100 girls. Anything over 105-107 either way is considered abnormal (sex selective-abortions). So it would appear that there are not enough women to "go around" for the male populace. However, Korean men tend to engage in so much risky behavior that this surplus of men turns into a deficit by the time they are of marrying age - they are killing themselves off (see first source). Bottom line is that growing up, males are dominant, and they remain culturally so, but when it is time to get married, ladies have their choice, and many choose to be "more equal" with white counterparts.

On top of the risky behavior, male dominance in Korean culture is still at a level of absurdity. On MBC I saw a special that said during Korean thanksgiving (Chuseok) only 4 out of every 1000 husbandshelp out at all with the preparation or serving of the meal. When my Korean wife was growing up, they conferred with eachother to make sure at least one of the females of the house was home whenever their brother or father was home so that they could cook for them. My wife and her sisters in law are all well educated (Seoul U, Yonsei U, PHds and Law degrees).

Next, the Korean government has engaged in a propoganda campaign to make the Korean people believe they are of one "pure" race. This flies in the face of all logic, as nearly all Korean babies are born with "Mongolian" bruises, that the Baek-Chae, one of the three "Korean" tribes spoke proto-Japanese, and the fact that Korea has been occupied by "foreign" powers for most of the past 800 years. However, nearly all Koreans, regardless of education believes their race is pure.

Next, more than 60% of the media Koreans see on TV is from the US. When Koreans see white people, they don't have the "they all look alike" syndrome because they have learned to distinguish white features and develop their own estimates of what makes a white person attractive and unattractive. Seeing whites portrayed in positive and powerful positions every day on TV has led to the expansion of the "white guilt" phenomena that was once confined to minorities in the United States (e.g., I would be more [insert adjective] if I were white [American]). Believe it or not, I have heard this statement in Korea a lot.

Lastly, let me say you greatly overestimate physical appearance in a girls decision to go with a guy. What is true for males is not true for females. Korean men are defitinely threatened when seeing a Korean woman with a white man. I have been married to a Korean for 8 years and speak Korean fluently, so I hear all of the comments. However, Korean women still "prefer" Korean men, who despite all of the things I've cited above, are still more moderate then the men in most asian cultures. All around my house there are signs for Vietnamese and Chinese women trying to marry Korean men, who have an image internationally as being strong providers, dedicated, and confident, which seems to hold true.

Check out the links below for where I got my data from.

Answer 7

yeah that kind of attitude is the reason I can imagine they would want to be with someone for more reasons than just their size

an open minded relaxed attitude towards life is much more pleasant than stale suffocating male orental values passed down from an obscelete generation of psuedo alpha male asian dinosours

Answer 8

Let me guess here...
You were able to get lots of attention from girls in Korea with your tall and muscular figure, husky voice, and hairs on your chest.
They all ran away after they found out that your muscle can't handle the real job, your chest stink, and ..gasp*, your humongous privet part is for display only.
What's more, you got bit up by Korean guys for kept trying to mess up with Their girls!!!
Isn't that why so many colored man use to get lynched here in USA?
Here is my advice to you, if what you have listed is all you've got, you'll continually get dumped no matter who you dates, unless someone just looking for a alive sex toy.
No body wants to get involve in your sick game.
You should decide what you need to do for your life!!!!!

Answer 9

Korean men need not worry because girls from other nations, for example Taiwanese, Singaporeans, Japanese, Thais are dying to get their hands on their 'kimchi'.

Answer 10

How do western girls deal with all the guys going for Asian girls?

Live and let live (or let it go)

PS their own Korean women ?? did you say "own woman"???? as in they belong to them????

Answer 11

I don't think what you are saying is true.
However, if there were a grain of truth in what you said, perhaps they could console themselves w the fact that other Asian women find them hot--Japanese women, Chinese women, etc etc.